Tiffany
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Am I right in thinking you didn't get the horse from the owner but from a third party?
Aw thanks, kind of you to say. I'm probably a bit more abrupt than many others when buying and selling because I do it more than most so I often can't be bothered with the this and that of it all. Best of luck with your offer, I hope you all end up happy.
Rest assured that you're NOT a terrible ( potential ) buyer/ owner! People see things from all sorts of different angles - mostly based on their past personal experiences ( as were my comments),It would be a happier world for many horses if a lot of other owners showed as much concern for their horses as you clearly are for one that you do not actually even own! Do hope there's a happy outcome for you both
Am I right in thinking you didn't get the horse from the owner but from a third party?
I would pay agreed price without haggling in return for being given a very generous trial/loan period. I think the only possible wriggle room would be to ask for a nominal amount for the unsuitable saddle taken off.
The problem is there was no agreed price as such, seller just said "I'd like £X but make me an offer once you get to know him better". Had we agreed a price at the beginning I wouldn't even be asking about negotiating.
Ahh, I see, that makes things tricky. In that case how about 10% less than what she wanted minus the apparent 'worth' of old saddle
^ That was kind of in my mind too. Everyone seems to be suggesting the sellers are lovely generous people for giving such a long trial. But maybe they are just crossing their fingers that past issues won't show up or maybe they hoped this would happen, that the OP is attached and accepting behaviour that, if it appeared in a horse on first viewing, would be cause for further investigation if not outright refusal.
I find this fascinating! When anyone buys a horse on here that then shows any sort of issue, there are people queuing to say the buyer has been done. But in this case the OP is contemplating buying a horse with signs of a possible underlying condition without further veterinary investigation and the consensus is she should just pay up.
Personally, I'm with the people urging caution. I know you're attached to the horse but if it does have a physical issue you best know what you're getting into.
Thanks. That's completely understandable. This is my first independent purchase as growing up I usually had hand me downs and my parents always dealt with the sale. Unfortunately that's not so acceptable when you're in your late twenties!
Aww you're too kind. I'm hopeful it'll all work out ok
Yes someone was selling on behalf of the owner, which makes it all the more complicated.
But why would the owners give a 6 month loan if they knew or thought the horse had a pre existing condition ? Surely, they'd want to sell without a loan period, or at a push, a very short trial.
6 months is a long time, particularly for a horse that had been doing nothing prior to the loan.
That said, a pre purchase check would be a good idea.