Trouper
Well-Known Member
If he is so lovely in so many other ways he certainly would deserve the benefit of the doubt in my book. They say it can take up to a year to really get to know a new horse so you have barely put a hoof outside the stable door on that timescale. Any horse - of any age - needs to learn to trust a new owner and vice versa. It can't come in a few days however well he is treated during them. Add to that his age and I think he is doing remarkably well so far.
You need to find out "how" he learns and that can only come with getting to know him. Apart from making sure he and his tack are comfortable (as you are) I would start with some in hand walking so that you are meeting all the new scary things together. When you are on his back he is not feeling that support yet as he does not know you and does not feel he can trust you. When you do ride him, I would not be afraid to get off if he meets something that really frightens him and you can sense that he might go up. He will soon learn that you are there to protect and "fix" things that his young brain finds challenging.
I agree with others that the range of things you have done so far might just be too much for him to process in a week - so that might be your first lesson learnt about him - he needs to take things slowly, one at a time and with lots of gentle repetition.
I know how deflating it can be when all the excitement of finding and getting a new horse wears off because apparent problems appear. Do persevere with him - and get help if you need it - because he sounds a lovely character.
You need to find out "how" he learns and that can only come with getting to know him. Apart from making sure he and his tack are comfortable (as you are) I would start with some in hand walking so that you are meeting all the new scary things together. When you are on his back he is not feeling that support yet as he does not know you and does not feel he can trust you. When you do ride him, I would not be afraid to get off if he meets something that really frightens him and you can sense that he might go up. He will soon learn that you are there to protect and "fix" things that his young brain finds challenging.
I agree with others that the range of things you have done so far might just be too much for him to process in a week - so that might be your first lesson learnt about him - he needs to take things slowly, one at a time and with lots of gentle repetition.
I know how deflating it can be when all the excitement of finding and getting a new horse wears off because apparent problems appear. Do persevere with him - and get help if you need it - because he sounds a lovely character.