honetpot
Well-Known Member
Its the every basic things that are hard, learning that basic language, not the fancy stuff.I kind of feel like I need the lessons tbh. There's nothing very exciting happening in them. Lots of bending and walk trot canter....I sort of feel like I need them for me if that makes sense?
About the only time I treat is when I ask a horse to stand still, you watch a horse in a field and when they are worried they move away. Standing still is hard. You are asking him to stand still while something is fiddling on his back, he is worried, and you are 'holding him' so the only way out is up or around, to avoid the pressure, he has no reassurance from another horse this is OK.
Right from when I start they get rewarded with a pat, or sometimes a treat for waiting, so it's absolutely clear what is needed.
A good horse is just a horse that has not been stressed to a point that it needs to get away, the rider needs to understand when the stress level is increasing and reduce the stress or avoid it.