patchy_horses
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Thanks for all the quick replies and honest replies.
I guess sometimes you have to evaluate how much you want the horse, and the past 24 hours have been horrendous for me because the thought of losing her doesn't bare thinking about. Although I know you can get horses the same as her for pennies these days she is special to me and my family and I would hate to let her go. She's not like any other comparable horse. The owner popped up and said "don't worry I'm not going to take her off you" this morning so I guess that's something.
It's irritating because in the back of my mind I knew this would happen, but I thought her owner would negotiate on the price - instead she's just flipped and told me she'll take her back if needed.
You're right. do I spend the money getting a cheaper horse which I don't know the history of, or a horse I've had vetted and produced myself? I know everything about her and she trusts me and my Mum.
I don't have the money she's asking for, and I'd be very reluctant to pay it, but I'd be distraught if she went back there, nevermind the fact that my other horse is very fond of her too and it would break up a whole family.
I think I'll just let things blow over, I have a tight contract which states the owner can't take the horse back unless she feels the horse is being mistreated, so hopefully that'll give me time to either find the money or decide whether or not she's worth the money.
Here's a photo of when we first got her in April, just for the sake of showing improvement:
Thanks again for your comments.
I guess sometimes you have to evaluate how much you want the horse, and the past 24 hours have been horrendous for me because the thought of losing her doesn't bare thinking about. Although I know you can get horses the same as her for pennies these days she is special to me and my family and I would hate to let her go. She's not like any other comparable horse. The owner popped up and said "don't worry I'm not going to take her off you" this morning so I guess that's something.
It's irritating because in the back of my mind I knew this would happen, but I thought her owner would negotiate on the price - instead she's just flipped and told me she'll take her back if needed.
You're right. do I spend the money getting a cheaper horse which I don't know the history of, or a horse I've had vetted and produced myself? I know everything about her and she trusts me and my Mum.
I don't have the money she's asking for, and I'd be very reluctant to pay it, but I'd be distraught if she went back there, nevermind the fact that my other horse is very fond of her too and it would break up a whole family.
I think I'll just let things blow over, I have a tight contract which states the owner can't take the horse back unless she feels the horse is being mistreated, so hopefully that'll give me time to either find the money or decide whether or not she's worth the money.
Here's a photo of when we first got her in April, just for the sake of showing improvement:
Thanks again for your comments.