OH DEAR!! i feel for you.
i ride the day after they arrive as well - less time for the nerves to kick in!
i would keep trying, even if it's just at a standstill for a couple of times.
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Hmm I can understand how that would be a bit unnerving.. is there someone who can help you ? Even if its just getting on board and someone leading you round ?
[/ QUOTE ] I got on today (arrived yesterday) and was promptly dumped!
Hmm I can understand how that would be a bit unnerving.. is there someone who can help you ? Even if its just getting on board and someone leading you round ?
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I have help, my friend was up today and jumped on after me and he was fine. (however, she is no where near as nervous as me so perhaps he felt it?)
i get on the next day as long as i have a saddle that i know is a good fit on the horse.
is your horse in a different saddle to the one you tried him in? sometimes they can be trying to tell us something, very eloquently.
hope you're okay. i'd check saddle, and lunge him first too, to see what side of bed he got out of, personally!
was it the cob?
we have a mare with us who takes around 2 weeks to really settle, she's a complete cowbag until then. total different horse once she's settled. i'd def give any horse at least that long (unless it was really dangerous) to show it's true self.
ditto kerilli about getting saddle, teeth etc checked too
was it the cob?
we have a mare with us who takes around 2 weeks to really settle, she's a complete cowbag until then. total different horse once she's settled. i'd def give any horse at least that long (unless it was really dangerous) to show it's true self.
ditto kerilli about getting saddle, teeth etc checked too
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For my sins, it was indeed!
However, i am still in touch with the TBx owner incase this doesnt work out...
Saddler/teeth and back lady are all out this week to check him over
Having only had Drifter a week my experience was that he was quite wound up when he arrived so evening of first day I turned him out in the Arena to explore and spook without me. Day 2 Lunged first and sat on like a lemon for 5 minutes waiting to die. Day 3 did same in second school.
He is on NAF Pink Powders which are supposed to be brilliant for helping horses settle into new surroundings.
Now a week later I am embarrassed at how nervous I was and he is Brilliant and really chilled.
If Loan horse has you worried lunge before you ride just to see what side of bed he got out of. I have gone from the lungeing fro 30 mins or so to lungeing for 2 seconds to not bothering at all.
My teacher says at least a month. Feed them nothing but oats, hay and water and keep them inside to get used to the new stable. Then take them into the arena and hang on