The Original Kao
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hi thomastank thanks for the welcome
playboy......
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PLAYBOY
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it was my first horse famly not horsie i didnt have a say in things xx
we learn by are mistakes i surpose x
we learn by are mistakes i surpose x
Ferdinase514
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I have noticed sometimes if a newbie joins in a conversation. nobody answers. everso slightly clicky sometimes.
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You've hit the nail on the head.
It's very cliquey. Some forum members are worse than others and there are a good few i'd like to tell to pi*s off, but I bite my tongue
I have noticed sometimes if a newbie joins in a conversation. nobody answers. everso slightly clicky sometimes.
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You've hit the nail on the head.
It's very cliquey. Some forum members are worse than others and there are a good few i'd like to tell to pi*s off, but I bite my tongue
moodymare1987
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Why not put an ad in the horse mags, How long ago was it when you had him? I understand that dealers have lots of horses. but it was worth a try,
The Original Kao
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thats such a shame, i'm sorry to hear that, as i said i wasn't being b*tchy as didn't know the story. good luck in the search anyway. and don't let peeps bring u down.
The Original Kao
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i was told in another forum this place was pretty cliquey, but had to c for myself. in the most i've found peeps nice tho. and as for telling them to pee off lol guess u have to bite ure fingers sumtimes rather than bite ure tongue 
Broodle
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Another 'here here' for ThomasTank... hho is mostly fab (I've learned lots!), but can definitely be intimidating at times
Good luck finding your old pony Flintus.
Oh, and hello noblehouse, and welcome!
Good luck finding your old pony Flintus.
Oh, and hello noblehouse, and welcome!
Christmas_Kate
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I have noticed sometimes if a newbie joins in a conversation. nobody answers. everso slightly clicky sometimes.
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You've hit the nail on the head.
It's very cliquey. Some forum members are worse than others and there are a good few i'd like to tell to pi*s off, but I bite my tongue
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isnt it just. I've had nowt but s*** from some people, but am learning to ignore them. I think the fact that a few members come across as very domineering and almost moderator like can be quite frightening. I know of a few lurkers who refuse to post due to people jumping on others. But I think you get that on most forums. I do think the treatment of the two earlier was out of order, they're just teens, and we were all young once.
When it gets to the point where admin have to ask members to stop bickering you know it's getting pathetic. And even then, people who had been nasty on the previous posts replied to admins post saying along the lines of "I agree".
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I have noticed sometimes if a newbie joins in a conversation. nobody answers. everso slightly clicky sometimes.
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You've hit the nail on the head.
It's very cliquey. Some forum members are worse than others and there are a good few i'd like to tell to pi*s off, but I bite my tongue
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isnt it just. I've had nowt but s*** from some people, but am learning to ignore them. I think the fact that a few members come across as very domineering and almost moderator like can be quite frightening. I know of a few lurkers who refuse to post due to people jumping on others. But I think you get that on most forums. I do think the treatment of the two earlier was out of order, they're just teens, and we were all young once.
When it gets to the point where admin have to ask members to stop bickering you know it's getting pathetic. And even then, people who had been nasty on the previous posts replied to admins post saying along the lines of "I agree".
Weezy
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Seriously, as the second most prolific poster on this forum (how sad is that!) I can say that this is the most un-cliquey forum and least intimidating around! Whoever, whatever goes around, there are always people are here to help
However
One of the best things about HHO is that it is predominantly an adult forum, and that is not such a bad thing - the internet is awash with forums based on teen interests and teen chat and talk - it really is nice to have an adult, debating, advice board for us over 20s to use! For me, HHO isnt the place for teen bragging and the like, do it in the Common Room by all means, but the rest of the forum is a nice place for adults to chat, socialise and communicate (I didnt and have no want to see what all the rucus was about earlier that led to an admin post, this is solely my view and no one has to agree with it!)
However
One of the best things about HHO is that it is predominantly an adult forum, and that is not such a bad thing - the internet is awash with forums based on teen interests and teen chat and talk - it really is nice to have an adult, debating, advice board for us over 20s to use! For me, HHO isnt the place for teen bragging and the like, do it in the Common Room by all means, but the rest of the forum is a nice place for adults to chat, socialise and communicate (I didnt and have no want to see what all the rucus was about earlier that led to an admin post, this is solely my view and no one has to agree with it!)
_April_
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One day Weezy I will catch you up, one day!
(Actually not very likely though
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(Actually not very likely though
Tia
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I have absolutely no idea what went on either
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What I will say, since lots of people seem to be jumping on the "HHO is nasty" bandwagon......if you dislike everyone so much and you think everyone here is a bitchy so-and-so and filled with undesirable cliques.......... then why do you bother to keep coming back?
There are many other horse forums you know.
What I will say, since lots of people seem to be jumping on the "HHO is nasty" bandwagon......if you dislike everyone so much and you think everyone here is a bitchy so-and-so and filled with undesirable cliques.......... then why do you bother to keep coming back?
There are many other horse forums you know.
The Original Kao
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hi katie a, thank u 2 for the welcome
moodymare1987
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Hiya welcome to the forum, hope you enjoy it, though its not always like this lmao,
_April_
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yes it is.
lol
Welcome to the forum
lol
Welcome to the forum
Christmas_Kate
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Seriously, as the second most prolific poster on this forum (how sad is that!) I can say that this is the most un-cliquey forum and least intimidating around! Whoever, whatever goes around, there are always people are here to help
However
One of the best things about HHO is that it is predominantly an adult forum, and that is not such a bad thing - the internet is awash with forums based on teen interests and teen chat and talk - it really is nice to have an adult, debating, advice board for us over 20s to use! For me, HHO isnt the place for teen bragging and the like, do it in the Common Room by all means, but the rest of the forum is a nice place for adults to chat, socialise and communicate (I didnt and have no want to see what all the rucus was about earlier that led to an admin post, this is solely my view and no one has to agree with it!)
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), BUT we can't keep the kids locked up 2/7, one or two are bound to escape (as rebellious teens always do), and we just have to accept that. 99% of the time all is great, but I am amazed that for one or two common roomers escaping all this ructus has occured.
Can people not cope??
Seriously, as the second most prolific poster on this forum (how sad is that!) I can say that this is the most un-cliquey forum and least intimidating around! Whoever, whatever goes around, there are always people are here to help
However
One of the best things about HHO is that it is predominantly an adult forum, and that is not such a bad thing - the internet is awash with forums based on teen interests and teen chat and talk - it really is nice to have an adult, debating, advice board for us over 20s to use! For me, HHO isnt the place for teen bragging and the like, do it in the Common Room by all means, but the rest of the forum is a nice place for adults to chat, socialise and communicate (I didnt and have no want to see what all the rucus was about earlier that led to an admin post, this is solely my view and no one has to agree with it!)
[/ QUOTE ] I do agree with you weezy (and one day i too shall catch up
Can people not cope??
moodymare1987
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Yeah maybe you are right, Lmao but gord dont scare her away already
_April_
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Yes don't worry noblehouse I was joking I promise!
polyphonic
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people cant cope! i am one of those people who certain and the same users have a problem with. so instead of pressing the ignore this user, as i have and still cotinue to do for those i dont want to listen to they tend to have their 2 penny's worth...regardless of the conversation. my post this morning led to a post title FLINTUS AND PLAYBOY... at which people asked us to go to the common room, call us illetirate morons (etc) that post has now been removed! instead of saying i dont care for your post or opinion or ignoring those users they made a mountain out of a mole hill and 8 hurs later we are still tlking about the same situation...now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately but im now asking nicely! STOP TALKING ABOUT US!
its petty childish and for an 'adult' forum i would of expected better. rant over!
its petty childish and for an 'adult' forum i would of expected better. rant over!
Super_Kat
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If your an 'Active Topics' user, like I am, and you get 6 or 7 of the same post (with the title written in capitals) it all get's a bit annoying!
Please go back to the CR.
Please go back to the CR.
Tia
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now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
The Original Kao
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lmao thanks every1 for the great welcome. i used to run my own chatroom so have seen so much worse. people just need to relax and realise this is only the internet. and i will always fight for an underdog, i hate bullies, and it looked like so many people were ganging up on playboy over something and nothing. and i'm sure the moderators/admin are more than capable of correcting her on her mistake (everybody messes up at times), so it should've been reported then left to them to deal with, rather than the witch hunt it ended up looking like.
but hey what do i know i'm just a noob lol
but hey what do i know i'm just a noob lol
polyphonic
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why does it annoy you? why? what harm has it done. you have made your own blood pressure rise!! why do people have to make such an issue out of it posting in every room? what business is it of your's if you can not help the girl find her horse then shouldnt that be the end of it. if admin are troubled by this im sure they will send Sam a PM. for everyone to get so irrate, troubled and upset by this behaviour is quite sad to view. i suggest if you dont want to see these posts there is a button for you to click. thank you
The Virgin Dubble
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now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
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Me neither....
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now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
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Me neither....
polyphonic
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well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
JadeWisc
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now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
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Me neither....
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before today me neither
and I spend half of my waking life on here
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now i know myself and playboy are the height of discussion lately
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Not with me.......I've never even heard of you either of you, to be quite honest.
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Me neither....
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before today me neither
Weezy
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*cough Illiterate cough*
TBH the posting in lots of forums is just an ettiquete (oh so spelt wrong) thing - not worthy of people getting their knickers in a twist about!
TBH the posting in lots of forums is just an ettiquete (oh so spelt wrong) thing - not worthy of people getting their knickers in a twist about!
The Virgin Dubble
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well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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I haven't asked you to apologise, and have made my feelings clear, (hopefully!), on playboy's 'apology' post.
well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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I haven't asked you to apologise, and have made my feelings clear, (hopefully!), on playboy's 'apology' post.
Tia
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Well I have no idea why they would say that unless the posts were in fact Common Room worthy?
How old are you both?
How old are you both?
AlisonG
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well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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And it isn't terribly eddifying to repeat them.
Again I'll make what I think is a very reasonable request. Please don't use text speak and please try to vaguely spell check your posts. It makes it extremely difficult for people with learning disabilities, sight problems etc to read.
well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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And it isn't terribly eddifying to repeat them.
Again I'll make what I think is a very reasonable request. Please don't use text speak and please try to vaguely spell check your posts. It makes it extremely difficult for people with learning disabilities, sight problems etc to read.
JadeWisc
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well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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Oh I fully agree that name calling is very wrong! That is a shame.
I am wondering though. I had a peek at your profile and it states you are 23. Why on earth would anyone call you a youngter or tell you to go to CR at that age? I was a single mother raising a 3 yr old at your age. Are adults supposed to be in the common room???? I may be way off as I never go in there. Maybe "youthful" means under 30, but my thoughts were that it was for under 18.
well unfortuantly we have been! and it hasnt been pretty!! so i wont apologise for sticking up for playboy earlier, she's a great friend of mine and the bullying antics of those 'adults' who advised us youngsters to go in the common room, was well, just disgusting
troll
twat
illeliterate moron
bet that made several of you feel very grown up
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Oh I fully agree that name calling is very wrong! That is a shame.
I am wondering though. I had a peek at your profile and it states you are 23. Why on earth would anyone call you a youngter or tell you to go to CR at that age? I was a single mother raising a 3 yr old at your age. Are adults supposed to be in the common room???? I may be way off as I never go in there. Maybe "youthful" means under 30, but my thoughts were that it was for under 18.