lachlanandmarcus
Well-Known Member
If I was putting my mare in foal, I would want to make sure that the YO had both the facilities and knowledge to support me and the mare.
I would be wanting a larger box for foaling, straw to bed on (we are usually on sawdust) and the YO's permission to carry out the late night checks for however long was necessary.
If I was you, I too would be mad at this woman's complete disregard for you. Our yard is all locked up at night, assuming yours is, it is going to be quite intrusive for you if you live on site and have her coming and going at all times.
As it happens, the yard I am on now could accommodate a mare and foal, others I have been on couldn't possibly have done so and I would have moved somewhere more suitable prior to getting the mare in foal.
If it really is a massive inconvenience to you, maybe you could suggest she sends the mare back to stud to foal down
This, I would be asking her to leave TBH (Im not a YO so it wouldn't arise) but to me not telling your YO you are putting your mare in foal/have put them in foal is extremely rude and an equivalent level of rudeness would not be tolerated in any other context, so why should it here when there are studs available who could board the mare till foaling?
Just because there might be a field which with a lot of work COULD accommodate a foal doesn't mean you are obliged to do so. The client is paying livery for ONE horse in the existing grounds and anything else is entirely at the YO discretion. In addition it isn't just about the field, its the toings and froings at all hours, upsetting the other settled clients and the plain deception.
I suspect that you are normally a cheery nice YO and it isn't really fair of people on here to judge you as a YO based on a scenario where you have been shafted by one of your clients and backed into a corner. Im sure you would be more sympathetic if someone bought a horse in good faith and it turned out to be a BoGOf, but that's a totally different situation.