Problematic horse - When do you just give up?

ChestnutHunter

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Trying to do some soul searching because I just don't know when to call it a day with my horse.

I bought him in July 2015 as a 7 year old to do some dressage on and possibly some low lever workers classes. He is the best natured horse I have ever come across in my life, completely sane, loyal and would be fussed for hours, a typical gentle giant. He is what I would consider as a good competition horse, striking looking, maybe not the best confirmation but the correct brain and he will get he job done.

Now the perfect horse quickly turned into a nightmare and Since March 2016 he has had reoccurring grade 4 ulcers four times from which we found PSD in his hind right which we had surgery for. Sutures burst, leg was a complete mess and he hen spent a month under hospital livery. The rehab was going to plan after a winter long turnout and SI injections. He has been back in work around 6 weeks and looks great, and low and behold he has gone completely lame in his right fore. I had the vet out yesterday for a lameness work up including X-rays which were inconclusive, meaning he is now on Bute and box rest until we can decide what to do ext.
Of course, my insurance has run out today and he is no longer covered for any leg or for ulcers.

On top of these problems he has sidebone in his two forelimbs, and mild arthritis in his coffin joints which of course isn't going to get any better, a partially paralysed larynx, and gets regular hives requiring steroid treatment over the summer months.

I'm at a loose end because we have used claim after claim and I'm starting to think that he can't cope physically with a ridden career and I think he may be better as a companion. When he is sound he is fantastic and works very hard, but how long do you put up with the problems for? There are so many people telling me that we have gotten this far and to carry on with him but the financial burden ontop of an unused wagon is starting to become emotionally and financially draining! The fact that he is so kind is making the decision of what to do with him seriously difficult.
 
I think that amount of injuries would tip me over the edge. I'm convinced thats some horses just end up being an endless list of injuries. with those ones if they are field sound i either turn away on grass for a long time, or else pts. You sound like you have tried everything and reached the end of your budget with it. If you have no other option then pts is very understandably and it's what i would probably do in your case.
 
In answer to your question it would be 'NOW' for me.
And I wouldn't consider as a companion - 1. because i don't see how he could be kept pain free long term with that many issues, (some are bound to get worse even if he is not working) and 2. if you let someone else have him as a companion then they probably won't be able to afford the ongoing vet bills anyway and 3. it is REALLY hard to find a good longterm companion type home and 4. some competition horses just HATE retirement.
I would give him a couple of months of mooching round the paddock in the summer sun (unless you are plagued by flies or he is not sound enough to be happy on meds) then put to sleep.
Just my opinion, but i believe quality of life for a short time is better than a long lingering period of chronic pain and issues.
 
Have to agree with both of the replies above. A friend of mine had one of those walking disaster horses, it was very sad - he seemed to be everything she wanted in a horse until he was struck down by one thing after another. amongst other things he had a wind op, which went a bit wrong, had apparently incurable pemphigus and finally turned out to be a wobbler. She had him pts as the neuro issues would only deteriorate even if the rest was manageable.
really tragic, but for me I'd say enough was enough I think.
 
agree with all of the above I think you could turn away and see if mother nature does its magic then so many months down the line you might be clearer in your mind what to do if his still not sound, and then at least you have given him one last try and you may have got your head round to having him pts if it doesn't work out, so sorry it's a bloody awful situation to be in especially when it's a horse that you really click with.
 
I was all for telling you to hang in there until I got to the paragraph about the sidebone, arthritis and larynx. These will all only get worse. It must be devastating for you but I agree with the others, I think you have gone far enough and done all you can. I'm so sorry.
 
Gosh, for me I would call it a day, sorry.

Gutted for you, you really have done everything you can, sending you a hug.
 
Horrible situation, my lovely boy that I had PTS two months ago had multiple issues, but not quite on the scale of this. It was just too much and we couldn't keep on top of it, In the end it was the kindest thing for him. It was by far the the hardest thing for me but also a huge relief in a devastating way. I really feel your pain, but you just have to let your head rule your heart at times like this. Mine wouldn't have coped retired and it wouldn't have been fair as he would have deteriorated. Sending hugs
 
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