P3LH
Well-Known Member
From having relied on others help (including more from OH who would usually just do the fussing, spoiling and teaching annoying habits) this has been one of the biggest stumbling blocks for me.i canāt think of anyone I would trust. Things like you never tell a worker off for carrying or chewing, even if itās your diamond necklace or your new Jimmy Choos. Thereās so much early stuff that can make your life difficult if done wrong. Quite possibly this will be my last worker so Iām treating myself to something without baggage. I donāt then want it to collect some growing up!
Next door have offered but their collies free range and their last lab they ran over.![]()
Iām rigid and set in my ways with training from the words I use to the way I like dogs to stand in relation to me when we are at a stop (I know, I need to get a grip but itās how my brain manages several dogs at once) and have found I spend a lot of time undoing well meaning peoples basics/natural behaviour. By the latter I mean even to the habits pups get in to with how someone lets them through a door, or how someone serves their meals - I donāt overly communicate verbally with my dogs unless I am actually telling them what I want them to do/praising them. He is one thatās definitely spent a lot of time with chatter so everything is very exciting and as a result he is very irritating with it (I do love him, I promise but I think you and CC will know what I mean - we all have our habits of how we do things) and I have to smile and bite my tongue because others have helped me out with him.
It was worsened by him dislocating a shoulder and spending nearly three weeks on crate rest so missing a lot of walking socialising (now likes to bark at other dogs if I donāt let him stop to say hello - we will be having NONE of that I can tell you!)