Peglo
Well-Known Member
Please don’t question the OP’s ethics or conscience!
it is fairly obvious that they know the horse has started with issues to resolve, are very worried about this, has other commitments to finance, and quite simply is unable to spend such money right now. OP may well be able to spend when saved up for a while, but clearly not now! That is clear enough, surely?
suggesting all these possible veterinary explorations - unless you are offering to finance them -isn’t constructive.
It may be the horse is never going to come right, which would be another distressing loss, too, but at present seems reasonable to give the (young) animal the benefit of the doubt rather than destroy him, and selling him on to get out of the situation is likely to be equally ‘ unethical’.
If he is turned away and deteriorates wildly, sadly OP will have no choice, but that does not currently sound the case at all.
Plunging into debt won’t help the OP, either of her horses, or her peace of mind - don’t!
OP specifically asked what people would do and folk answered what they would look at next
By the sounds of it OP found the replies helpful, not accusatory.
Wishing you the best of luck OP and hope you can get your lad comfortable