sasquatch
Well-Known Member
So I have found two lovely young sharers for my boy.
They're both good friends, and would normally be down with him together when they are sharing or a parent would be down with them.
Parents aren't horsey, but would want to watch if they were riding without the other girl being there (perfectly understandable, they are 13/14 year old girls)
Riding wise, one is much more suited to him than the other. But the other one also gets him working a lot nicer! So between them, I think they'll manage alright with him.
I've been really impressed with them both so far, they're nearly ready to take over completely and other liveries have been introduced and said they can give a hand.
Mum has seen them both ride and when they're with him too - she is concerned the more nervous rider may have problems. She was with them yesterday and the more nervous rider came off twice - she got back on both times, and the other girl said she would get on if he was being a bit silly and funnily enough once she had got on he stopped messing around.
They're a bit slow and gentle in some ways, with grooming and mucking out especially, but they've only helped out in riding schools and never had a share before - so the more they do the quicker they will get. He's an exceptionally quiet horse in the stable, so I'm not concerned about that at all.
I was originally going to ask for a small contribution, however both girls would like him short term at first (which suits me as I'm overcoming glandular fever) and money may be an issue for them both. One is traveling quite far, and both are doing me a favour in that he's coming back into work so needs a lot of flatwork and schooling - which is all these two are really after, a horse to give a lot of TLC to and to get some more experience and to get to do some more riding.
I'm not a BHS member, however my mother is a lawyer. She's drafted a contract, however it's very formal and contains more information than necessary. They're covered on my insurance as they have my permission to ride, however I'd like to get that in writing just incase!
The issue I'm having is who would sign the contract, both their parents aren't horsey but as they're under 18 I would like parents to sign - but I also feel the girls should be involved in the contract too. Would it be reasonable to sit down with parents and girls to read through it, and make sure we all understand and any issues can be changed, or for me to just send them home with a copy?
As it is the girls who would be doing the riding and the chores, I really feel they should be involved. I have met their dads who confessed they're not horsey, but know one end of a horse from the other and asked very normal parent questions on safety, rules etc. and left the girls to ask horsey questions.
I have never got this far with a part-loan before, as my last one just wasn't suited, and I am only just 19 so a little unsure of how this works!
I'm really happy for the loan to go ahead as long as all parties are happy - YO is aware I have 2 sharers for him, and that it will most likely only be for september/october/november. Riding wise I am really happy, he doesn't need someone spectacular to come and school him and improve him atm, he just needs someone to get him back into work and doing the very basics with him to get him fit again which these two are very capable of doing.
Long post, so my apologies, but any advice on how to proceed much appreciated!
They're both good friends, and would normally be down with him together when they are sharing or a parent would be down with them.
Parents aren't horsey, but would want to watch if they were riding without the other girl being there (perfectly understandable, they are 13/14 year old girls)
Riding wise, one is much more suited to him than the other. But the other one also gets him working a lot nicer! So between them, I think they'll manage alright with him.
I've been really impressed with them both so far, they're nearly ready to take over completely and other liveries have been introduced and said they can give a hand.
Mum has seen them both ride and when they're with him too - she is concerned the more nervous rider may have problems. She was with them yesterday and the more nervous rider came off twice - she got back on both times, and the other girl said she would get on if he was being a bit silly and funnily enough once she had got on he stopped messing around.
They're a bit slow and gentle in some ways, with grooming and mucking out especially, but they've only helped out in riding schools and never had a share before - so the more they do the quicker they will get. He's an exceptionally quiet horse in the stable, so I'm not concerned about that at all.
I was originally going to ask for a small contribution, however both girls would like him short term at first (which suits me as I'm overcoming glandular fever) and money may be an issue for them both. One is traveling quite far, and both are doing me a favour in that he's coming back into work so needs a lot of flatwork and schooling - which is all these two are really after, a horse to give a lot of TLC to and to get some more experience and to get to do some more riding.
I'm not a BHS member, however my mother is a lawyer. She's drafted a contract, however it's very formal and contains more information than necessary. They're covered on my insurance as they have my permission to ride, however I'd like to get that in writing just incase!
The issue I'm having is who would sign the contract, both their parents aren't horsey but as they're under 18 I would like parents to sign - but I also feel the girls should be involved in the contract too. Would it be reasonable to sit down with parents and girls to read through it, and make sure we all understand and any issues can be changed, or for me to just send them home with a copy?
As it is the girls who would be doing the riding and the chores, I really feel they should be involved. I have met their dads who confessed they're not horsey, but know one end of a horse from the other and asked very normal parent questions on safety, rules etc. and left the girls to ask horsey questions.
I have never got this far with a part-loan before, as my last one just wasn't suited, and I am only just 19 so a little unsure of how this works!
I'm really happy for the loan to go ahead as long as all parties are happy - YO is aware I have 2 sharers for him, and that it will most likely only be for september/october/november. Riding wise I am really happy, he doesn't need someone spectacular to come and school him and improve him atm, he just needs someone to get him back into work and doing the very basics with him to get him fit again which these two are very capable of doing.
Long post, so my apologies, but any advice on how to proceed much appreciated!