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Tbh im quite shocked so many members i previously respected have now lowered themselves to common insults. If this is what the forum has come to then help us all.

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Who me? the pfpc is a bit tongue in cheek, to represent those who revel in drama, travel in gangs and like attention.

I might be quite scathing about a real pink pony.....if anybody would care to show me one
 
I usually sit and browse and very rarely add my bit but here goes.....
Feufolet having read some of your posts you are very to the point and speak your mind, its not always a good thing but i expect that it is the way you are in real life, and i have to say i really respect you for it. It is lovely when you post a pic asking for critisism and everyone says you look fantastic but come on in reality how many of us or our horses are perfect, i would far prefer to read a reply from FF that is constructive and gives me something to think about.
Havent really read the other posts as really i am not interested in getting involved but just wanted to add to this post that it would be a sad loss if you leave.
 
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LMAO!!! Oh my ..... how ironic!! Weren't you just saying something earlier to Weezy about how interesting it is to see those who think you are talking about....trying to make sure it isn't them who is being accused?

At least my accusations were only of ponies and muppets......nothing nearly so serious as accusing people of being bullies.

I was talking generically Katy...although you are one who certainly likes to wield the stick with "bully" flying from the end of it. You didn't actually say who was the bully....but you DID say there were 3 bullies.
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I've really just had about my fill of this today.
You accused me of being a stirrer, and then defined a muppet as someone who has nothing to do but stir.
2 + 2 = 4!!
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AND, we have a fluffy pony. We only have the one, a small shettie. You have given me damn good advice, and I have always listened to your advice over any other. I knew you could be argumentative, but you have really really surpassed yourself here.

Tia, I actually expected more from you, but all you feel you can do is try and pressurise me into naming names and creating further argument.
 
Um.... I dont think anyone was being derogatory about fluffy ponies....

***FF Is about to close the door and never come back if this continues***
 
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Um.... I dont think anyone was being derogatory about fluffy ponies....

***FF Is about to close the door and never come back if this continues***

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*****katy feels the same and is currently seeing a side of things she knew existed but hadnt witnessed before******
 
So...those who agree are bullies (and if our opinion is the same? Are we supposed to add advice we don't believe in?)
And those who speak out are brave..if they speak out with what you are argueing, if not then they are bullies.
TBH those who are making posts about 'SOMEONE has done this' are stirring and should either name, or shut up about that SOMEONE!
But that's just my piece..hope I didn't agree with anyone!
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don't! and the rest of yoo, stop arguing so we can have a laugh at FFs funny comments when she returns to form. now shut the door wit yoo safely inside the forum.
nite all, i hope this is all resolved when i log on after school tomorrow.
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Um.... I dont think anyone was being derogatory about fluffy ponies....

***FF Is about to close the door and never come back if this continues***

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Quite. Fluffy being used to denote the mental tendencies of the poster, not hairiness of horse
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Don't be silly; you can't just up and go - we won't let you for a start!

You're one of the ones on here who are like a breath of fresh air; we need people on here like you. I haven't a clue what all this is about but nothing's worth agonising as you are. Tell the culprits to stuff themselves like you'd normally do ( but in nicer words than mine!), you know you want to!
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Please don't go, and honestly, there aren't that many I would say that to cos people come and go on here regularly, but I would really miss your posts even if I don't take part in many of them.
 
I think you have missed the whole point. Read the whole thread and then come back.
The comment was made regarding a few members over weeks of posts, not just this one or two.

Bullies are people who continually pick on a certain person.
 
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I've really just had about my fill of this today

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And so have I! I have never lost my temper on here but as they say...there is always a first time for everything. A member (I don't even talk to her that much LOL!!) is leaving. She's a very knowledgeable poster from what I have read. She has been branded as something (perhaps not from you but certainly by others) that I don't believe she is. Yes I am annoyed!

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You accused me of being a stirrer, and then defined a muppet as someone who has nothing to do but stir.

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NO I DID NOT!! I accused you of standing wielding your Bully sign at all and sundry.

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AND, we have a fluffy pony. We only have the one, a small shettie.

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Oh please.....I won't even dignify that with an answer.

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I knew you could be argumentative, but you have really really surpassed yourself here.


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I don't care. Sometimes I believe in standing up for what is just and right.

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Tia, I actually expected more from you, but all you feel you can do is try and pressurise me into naming names

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I have NEVER ONCE asked you to name names......I am NOT interested in whom you are accusing - I am merely annoyed that you choose to judge and convict people because YOU decided that they were bullies.

You are perfectly at will to take anything I say personally...however you would be wrong in your assumption that I hide behind insinuations. When I have something to say - I say it loud and clear.
 
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I've really just had about my fill of this today

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And so have I! I have never lost my temper on here but as they say...there is always a first time for everything. A member (I don't even talk to her that much LOL!!) is leaving. She's a very knowledgeable poster from what I have read. She has been branded as something (perhaps not from you but certainly by others) that I don't believe she is. Yes I am annoyed!

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I think there will be more than FF leaving after this humdinger.

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You accused me of being a stirrer, and then defined a muppet as someone who has nothing to do but stir.

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NO I DID NOT!! I accused you of standing wielding your Bully sign at all and sundry.

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I did not wield my bully sign at all and sundry. I wielded it and saidd bullying HAD gone on IMO.

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AND, we have a fluffy pony. We only have the one, a small shettie.

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Oh please.....I won't even dignify that with an answer.

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I wouldnt expect you to. It was tongue in cheek. I was trying to raise a smile.

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I don't care. Sometimes I believe in standing up for what is just and right.

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and so do I. maybe that is where we clash sometimes?

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Tia, I actually expected more from you, but all you feel you can do is try and pressurise me into naming names

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I have NEVER ONCE asked you to name names......I am NOT interested in whom you are accusing - I am merely annoyed that you choose to judge and convict people because YOU decided that they were bullies.

You are perfectly at will to take anything I say personally...however you would be wrong in your assumption that I hide behind insinuations. When I have something to say - I say it loud and clear.

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Oh, I know you do.
 
Whoa guys, all breathe.....!
Of course I went and read the thead concerned and surmise there are probaly more threads referring to this horse and rider that many of us haven't read telling of their problems.
It's sometimes incredibly difficult to be honest and not offend people on this forum.
Last week a post I saw that so horrified me I pm'd the person concerned and suggested she show my pm to her parents.
I truly felt a young person was being put in a dangerous position and like many of the experienced people on here, could see a tragedy in the making.
I decided to pm so as not to offend the people concerned, and they have up to now ignored me completely which is of course their right. But with any luck I will have made them aware that what was happening was asking for an accident, so if they think twice,good.
Like Tia I would far rather save someone from being hurt than risk not saying anything. I feel when there are digs at "experience" there is something that should be born in mind. The reason so many of us understand what works and what's dangerous is because in the past we have made those mistakes ourselves!It's not arrogance but fact.
I looked at the pic of the grey pony and the rider is very uptight, which sadly is exactly the opposite of what you should be when starting young horses.
For her own safety it's better to say so than ignore it, and remember if you post a pic on here it is up for general comment, not just a pic that gets admiring comments. If you don't like that, well don't post!
There are lots of ways of achieving things and no one way is right, but some work better than others, and it's a wise person who listens to advice then makes their own mind up.
I hope no-one leaves here over this, we all have something useful to contribute and I reckon to learn something new at least once a day on here..
Now come on, let's accept we don't all agree and move on shall we?
 
Therefore you now realise that you are not the stirring, fluffy, pink pony, person. Good at least we have that sorted.
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Oh FFS can't you leave it, you've already said elsewhere that you're having a bad time at the moment, sorry about that, but just let things go, its not all to do about you. Let it go, and relax.
 
I know im not one to comment bout arguments cause ive had a cracking couple of tiffs in the last couple of weeks! But Tia and Katy come on you 2 behave yourselves, im not surprised people are leaving when everyone is beign like this!!! I wouldnt say either of you are in the right or the wrong but does this have to be done on the forum! COME on GET A GRIP!
 
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Oh FFS can't you leave it, you've already said elsewhere that you're having a bad time at the moment, sorry about that, but just let things go, its not all to do about you. Let it go, and relax.

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whatever is going on in my personal life has nothig to do with this.
 
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basically because I've had my opinion someone has to drag something into it which has no relevance?? I find that extremely sad and degrading.
 
Tia, I was one of the people who voiced my concerns over bullying, as, having read through some previous posts, there seemed to be a pattern emerging of continued digs at FMN. Nothing that would stand out on it's own, but when you've read several threads by the same person it is easier to see.
I am not referring to one particular thread btw, and I am not referring to the advice you and others gave FMN on that particular post.
 
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I know im not one to comment bout arguments cause ive had a cracking couple of tiffs in the last couple of weeks! But Tia and Katy come on you 2 behave yourselves, im not surprised people are leaving when everyone is beign like this!!! I wouldnt say either of you are in the right or the wrong but does this have to be done on the forum! COME on GET A GRIP!

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You filthy hypocrite!
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well, I'm having vodka shots but I'm suuure there is some g+t round here somewhere..........
Bring your own glass though!
(and yes Katy..I have read the posts, and that is my reply.)
 
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My two penneth - and I don't give a flying fig which bandwagon anyone thinks I'm jumping on.

People disagree with each other all the time - it would be a very boring world if we all agreed. If the vast majority disagree with you its not because they are bullying you its because the disagree with you. End of. It really is that bloody simple.
There is a saying - if you can't stand the heat - get out of the kitchen. I think there are a few members who would do well to bear that in mind.
 
Please don't leave FF.

IMO there was absolutely no bullying going on, just frank opinions, and the only problem here is people stirring up something to huge proportions and making a flippin mountain out of a very small molehill.

And I am bloody confused about who the "3 bullies" are supposed to be. I do not believe anyone was bullying, but FF was the most prominent member, so if you weren't referring to her Katy, I have no clue at all - and maybe they don't either.
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