Joyous70
Well-Known Member
I have posted previously about my young mare not being the best loader, I have been working on this and trying to keep journeys local to get her used to getting out and about, however, she has major issues when we are stopped either at lights, junctions, and driveways to access yards etc., to the point people on the yard can actually hear us due to all her banging and stamping around. Im not sure if she is stamping from foot to foot, bucking or what she is doing but its seriously shredding my nerves, especially as she will do this if a large vehicle gets too close behind her as well, case in point Sunday I took her for a 20 minute ride to my instructors yard for a play, loaded fairly well, only took 10 minutes, travelled lovely, until I got onto the A45, we sat at a set of traffic lights, cue her starting to get agitated, so I try to rock the car a little until we can pull off, then all hell broke loose, the trailer was rocking and the noise was horrendous, it sounded like she was trying to kick the ramp down and I could feel the trailer pushing forwards onto my towbar, im at this point trying to navigate the 4 or 5 lane roundabout without wiping anyone out! when I notice a HUGE lorry appear in my left side mirror, it took a few seconds (felt like minutes) for her to settle again, but once I had pulled onto the drive at my instructors yard, she starts again when I get out of the car to activate the buzzer at the gate.
I honestly don't know if im doing the right thing by keep trying to get her out in short little blasts to get her used to this, obviously the lorries or larger vehicles are worrying her, but i can't avoid them getting too close, they do what they do, I have got some stickers on order asking people to stay back etc.,
I had my trailer serviced only last month, but am taking it into a coach builders at the weekend to see if they can replace the wooden floor with aluminium, or reinforce it in some way, as im terrified that with all her stamping she is actually going to put the floor through.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this before? and did it get any better?
I am supposed to be taking her out to an evening dressage tomorrow night, unfortunately i don't have anyone that can come with me, and im seriously considering not going as the thought of doing a 15 mile journey is freaking me out, i have checked out a route that i can do which is all single carriageway and B roads if i do go, but im still worried.
sorry for the essay, any suggestions, advice, calmers (for the driver) appreciated.
I honestly don't know if im doing the right thing by keep trying to get her out in short little blasts to get her used to this, obviously the lorries or larger vehicles are worrying her, but i can't avoid them getting too close, they do what they do, I have got some stickers on order asking people to stay back etc.,
I had my trailer serviced only last month, but am taking it into a coach builders at the weekend to see if they can replace the wooden floor with aluminium, or reinforce it in some way, as im terrified that with all her stamping she is actually going to put the floor through.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this before? and did it get any better?
I am supposed to be taking her out to an evening dressage tomorrow night, unfortunately i don't have anyone that can come with me, and im seriously considering not going as the thought of doing a 15 mile journey is freaking me out, i have checked out a route that i can do which is all single carriageway and B roads if i do go, but im still worried.
sorry for the essay, any suggestions, advice, calmers (for the driver) appreciated.