Ample Prosecco
Still wittering on
If both me and the horse see the same stride then it all feels lovely. But if something unexpected happens (she stands off or gets in deep or chips in) I get ahead or behind.
Various 'RI speak' phrases are not really helping: I have tried waiting for the fence to come to me and sitting back till her shoulders lift then going with the horse but if I do that I sometimes get left behind unless I know where she is going from. But if I try to see a stride and she then chips in, I get ahead of her. If the horse hesitates and then goes I get left really far behind which makes me feel awful as she gets socked in the teeth for responding to my 'go on' aid when she wasn't sure in the first place. I am practicing on Dolly because I don't want to turn Toby off jumping with my bad riding! Poor Dolly. How do I stay with her when she jumps awkwardly or off an unexpected stride. I don't even lnow what skill I need to practice? Jumping with no reins? Core work?? Eyes closed jumping??? (On a lunge obviously!) It is sooooo odd riding other horses after Amber. I can't tell what they are going to do.
Various 'RI speak' phrases are not really helping: I have tried waiting for the fence to come to me and sitting back till her shoulders lift then going with the horse but if I do that I sometimes get left behind unless I know where she is going from. But if I try to see a stride and she then chips in, I get ahead of her. If the horse hesitates and then goes I get left really far behind which makes me feel awful as she gets socked in the teeth for responding to my 'go on' aid when she wasn't sure in the first place. I am practicing on Dolly because I don't want to turn Toby off jumping with my bad riding! Poor Dolly. How do I stay with her when she jumps awkwardly or off an unexpected stride. I don't even lnow what skill I need to practice? Jumping with no reins? Core work?? Eyes closed jumping??? (On a lunge obviously!) It is sooooo odd riding other horses after Amber. I can't tell what they are going to do.