Suitable dogs for older people

Ambers Echo

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My mum has never not had a dog until a few weeks ago when her beloved lab died, aged 13. She has aways tended to buy a puppy when the established dog is about 5 so most of the time she has had 2. The dog before died about 4 years ago and she did not get a 2nd dog that time thinking she was too old and it was not fair. But she is utterly lost without a dog. She is a widow and very lonely. She loves walking and walked miles every day on her own but also in dog walking groups. She can still walk obviously but says she hates it without a dog with her. She also feels vulnerable alone and liked the sense of security of having a dog that barked at strangers.

She is fit as a fiddle and outwalks many people decades younger. So she is now thinking she will get one after all. But not a lab (she has only ever had labs) as they are too high energy. And she has also recently downsized and lives in a tiny cottage (though a big garden). She wants to be able to pick a dog up after a walk to towel it off before coming into the house as there is no hall, let alone bootroom etc. So her old lab would come in covered in mud straight into the living room from walks and even just from the garden when it was wet. So a smaller less high energy breed would be ideal. Something loyal and affectionate as it is the companiopnship she misses most of all. But not a toy breed.

Any recommendartions on breed? Or is it really not a good idea to have a dog as an older person? I mean any of us can become incapacitated at any time unexpectedly, but the risks are far higher the older you get. It is definitely the right thing for her. But is it right for the dog?
 

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I'd look into an older rescue/rehome and something from show/pet lines.

First breeds that sprang to mind were whippet, miniature Schnauzer, one of the native terriers.

I've urged my Mum against another dog as she's away/travelling so often but if she was at home more I'd have no problem with it.
 

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Thanks for reply. My aunt, her sister, has a Bedlington Whippet cross who my mum is very fond of. But we know nothing at all about either of those breeds. Though it is very sweet to look at! And a cheerful, friendly dog.
 

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miniature poodle! “my” mini poodle is more of my nana’s now, they walk for hours every day but he’s also happy to lounge around in bed - with me, my nana is not one for a lie in🤣 he was the easiest puppy ever, an absolute angel right from the start. light and small enough to pick up, but not teeny tiny enough to trip over😂 if it wouldn’t cost me a fortune taking them all to the groomers i’d have 10!
 

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Would she consider an older dog? I know someone who has just rehomed an ex breeding bitch in similar circumstances and it all seems to have worked out brilliantly. It was a schipperke, they would tick your boxes for pickupability and loyalty, big dogs in small bodies. They've usually simmered down by age 4-5...!
 

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Whippets need to run. I always wanted a lurcher but they need to run as well. Daughter walked an Irish terrier for an elderly man in hospital and then bought one of her own. But I grew up with a wire haired fox terrier and if OH dies (he wont have a dog) I shall buy a wire haired fox terrier. The only reason I dont insist on getting one straight away, is that I am still riding and he would need to look after any dog while I was at the yard.
 

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I currently have a lab and a goldie but I have a soft spot for toy poodles, think they are really smart little dogs, what about a border terrier?

I would have no problem with an older active person having a dog, who can give the dog what it needs
 

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Papillons are great and often overlooked, I would have one I think. They like to walk and do life but also like to dose, fairly long lived and healthy too with a coat that wouldn’t need professional grooming. Lots go oversize too so get sold to pet or agility homes, so it wouldn’t have to be a tiny tiny dog.

Failing that: older show line whippet, border terrier bitch, Tibetan spaniel (if happy with a dog not offlead), sealyham terrier or even a slightly older Stafford - wonderful size, wonderful nature and suitable for everyone once out of the bouncy ‘sorry for head butting you’ youngster stage.
 

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Papillons are great and often overlooked, I would have one I think. They like to walk and do life but also like to dose, fairly long lived and healthy too with a coat that wouldn’t need professional grooming. Lots go oversize too so get sold to pet or agility homes, so it wouldn’t have to be a tiny tiny dog.

Failing that: older show line whippet, border terrier bitch, Tibetan spaniel (if happy with a dog not offlead), sealyham terrier or even a slightly older Stafford - wonderful size, wonderful nature and suitable for everyone once out of the bouncy ‘sorry for head butting you’ youngster stage.
Papillons are great little dogs I forgot about those, I know of one that is late teens who did agility when younger and did everything a bigger dog would do but in a smaller package
 

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Depends if she wants to home groom or get pro groomed. And I’d not get too hung up on breed, although I appreciate it helps narrow down the choices. Maybe put a shout out on an agility page for a retiree? At least they should be fairly obedient and socialised.
 

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Papillons are great little dogs I forgot about those, I know of one that is late teens who did agility when younger and did everything a bigger dog would do but in a smaller package
I’ll have a red sable one day. When the pems are older or gone, as they are too rough with their play and general life for a toy breed. Paps are so bright and sociable, and one of those breeds that genuinely just really like to please.

My in laws have a Shih tzu come poodle, he would fit almost every person in the world - whether you want a dog to baby or want a dog to be a real dog and walk miles, climb hills and go swimming (he does all these things), he’s able to accommodate. They’re quite a popular cross round here, and all seem very similar. I know it’s taboo to mention crosses other than Lurchers usually!
 

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My mum rescued a 10 yo Sheltie. They were very well suited. It was quite happy to be a spoiled lap-dog for mum but enjoyed long walks with me at the weekend.
My elderly neighbour seems very happy with her Shih Tzu (again an older rescue).
 

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As someone the wrong side of 60, I'd be looking at breeds that dont require shelling out for regular grooming sessions.

That said, after losing our last dog we did say no more, which only lasted just over 2 months.... and we got a puppy, which of course is one that requires grooming 🤣

Friend has a Norwich, another a Papillon. The Pap came as a 2 yr old as owner had passed away, a very delightful girl.
 

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Mini daschund, we have a 15 yr old one still very active, we restrict her walking now but as a youngster would walk 6 miles round the hills with no problems. People say they have back problems we've had minis for 30 yrs and if you avoid them jumping of furniture you wont have any problems.
 

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Whippets need to run. I always wanted a lurcher but they need to run as well. Daughter walked an Irish terrier for an elderly man in hospital and then bought one of her own. But I grew up with a wire haired fox terrier and if OH dies (he wont have a dog) I shall buy a wire haired fox terrier. The only reason I dont insist on getting one straight away, is that I am still riding and he would need to look after any dog while I was at the yard.

My 78 year old friend has a greyhound. She gets to run. Then she sleeps the rest of the day. The owner doesn't necessarily have to meet the same pace as the dog? Lurchers are slightly different in that they have blood from other, more uniformly active breeds.
 

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Well I would say a whippet. Yes they like a run but ours are happy with a run at the yard in the morning but only if they are allowed to sleep for the rest of the day. They are really sofa dogs. They are easy to have around, don't require hours of grooming and seem fairly robust healthwise. We like to have more than one but most folk don't have multiples. I've had them for almost 25 years. Brilliant little dogs. I would say though, don't go for a working line (we have one now) they are much more demanding of exercise and activity. The show lines seem more at ease with life in general. Don't go for an Italian greyhound. Lovely little souls but very hard to housetrain in our experience.
 

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I think your mum has made the right decision to get another dog. We wanted Dad to get another dog after he had his last Lab pts, suggesting older dogs, lurcher etc but he said that he had had enough of dog walking after 60 yrs (he bought Mum a dog as a wedding present). We said we would take any dog on if necessary in the future but still no. He said he would continue to walk once a day but the weather was very wet that autumn and he didn't go out as much, so he didn't get to chat to his dog walking acquaintances and obviously didn't get the exercise. We firmly believe that was the beginning of his decline into ill health, which led to his death 8 yrs ago.
I'm sure that your mum will have someone willing to step in if she needs a dog sitter either short or longer term
 

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I think a whippet would be perfect. If she's got a big garden, then a little run around that would be fine of she doesn't feel like a walk for a day, but are happy on long walks too. They don't need grooming, a towel down after a walk and they are bone dry. They are the ultimate lap dogs.
 

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Another vote for a show bred whippet.

Mine will take as much exercise as I offer him, but is also content on much less.

As little as a 30 minute lead walk around the block twice a day would keep him chilled, although we of course usually do more.

Here he is after 1.5 hours today. The vast majority of which was on lead.
 

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Cavalier….. but obviously I would say that! Although I adore whippets I can’t say I’d recommend them for the average elderly person (and yes I know there will always be exceptions!) - they generally are full on little dogs (or the ones I had were)

If she doesn’t mind a bigger dog then an ex-racing greyhound would also be perfect - they walk beautifully on the lead, are generally happy healthy dogs and they can make themselves really small when they want to (like when they sit on your knee 😊)
 

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My brother had a westie who would fit the bill, he would walk for miles or just go round the block, recall was good, no prey drive and did need to have his coat trimmed every so often. Some of them have skin issues so that needs to be taken into account but my brothers was fine
 

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Whippets are fairly portable without being trip hazards , easy to keep clean & don’t require professional grooming.

Cavaliers would tick the box for being small, annoyingly affectionate & of a suitable activity level but they are right mud magnets unless kept trimmed short (which would likely mean regular pro grooming). Technically a toy breed but also technically a spaniel. This may be a good or a bad thing!

Border terrier, Paterdale or Westie could also work if she found the right one.
 

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I am approaching 60 too quickly and wanted a smaller dog for my "old age", not that I feel old yet 👿

I ended up with a Whippet - taller than I wanted but still light enough to pick up and handle easily. Maybe I shouldn't have got a puppy, or maybe I'd forgotten how difficult puppies can be😊 Lola goes through stages of being well behaved or being a pain in the backside. She is coming into her first & last season, which has made her forget housetraining, heel, etc

I have always thought someone should develop a Cavalier sized Labrador as there is a gap in the market for a small, healthy, smooth coated, easily trained, normal looking dog😊
 
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