el_Snowflakes
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Is it only me that finds this post rather sad? I was once that 12 year old, as was my daughter, and we both found lovely people who were very patient and kind to us.
Why not tell her that you don't want her there every day but she is welcome on specific days when she can 'help'? A little bit of patience and kindness might change that childs world.
It is a bit sad, yes. But I can sympathise with OP. OP works hard to to keep her horses & for some of us it's the only luxury of time time to ourselves. I would suggest to the the grandparents/ parents that they take her to a riding school where she can learn to ride or even just spend time helping out with the horses. Meanwhile she is welcome to watch them over the fence. A private yard is not the place to so this. I keep my horse on private livery for this reason. I would explain that it's not safe for her & her brother to be there & that you don't have time to supervise these children when you are busy with your horses. Hopefully they will understand. TBH I think it sounds like she is just curious & likes to see what you are doing rather having a genuine interest in the horses, if this is the case I'm sure she will get over it.
Just to add: if I were the parents/grandparents I wouldn't be letting a 12 yo & 6yo hang around someone who i didn't know. Do they know the kids are there? If not it's really quite irresponsible.
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