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Same time as last year. He’s started to loose his mind.
He has a definite tendency to slight hysteria. He’s very difficult to get his attention and hold it.
Last winter I fully admit to being at my wits end with him but also, I’m not sure scared is really correct as I still got on him every day but I felt relief at getting home in one piece and was unable to ride alone/go off road.
Had decided to call it a day but he has done physical issues and I can’t see is sellable (unless someone as gullible as me turns up)
Spring and summer came, as did a bit of head shaking but a huge improvement. Got to the point I was taking him for lessons with a fantastic teacher who has mainly focussed on getting and keeping his attention but in a really chilled way, he started to actually go nicely for more of the lesson than not now.
This was echoed in our hacks.
Until last week when he turned into a nightmare again.
Dashing from door to window in his stable (he’s slept all summer, lip by his knees)
He won’t settle in the field pacing around with his head in the air and eyes on stalks, grabs a mouthful then darts across the field to start again.
Very in his toes to ride. He has p’d off on the road once and tried several times.
If we meet other horse all hell breaks loose.
He instead of walking the last bit home nicely canters sideways with me literally just keeping a hold of him. I’d not dream or riding him out alone at the moment.
I can’t bear the thought of another winter like this.
Last winter I tried various calmers but nothing makes any difference, I’ve spoken last week to the guy from Trinity and we are trying Evenkeel but only a few days in. I don’t ever ride weekends as I work more but he’s spent the day dashing round the stable and was like turning giraffe out! He’s now pacing round like he can hear the hunt.
Nothing changed, he’s on the same feed/routine as all summer. He could live out but from last years experience the next stage is ploughing through fencing and not being there in the morning.
Any ideas? I’m just gutted that this has happened again, especially when I really thought this summer we had made such huge progress.
Saddle/teeth/physio etc all very much up to date.
I’ve just moved him onto better grass incase he was hungry but it started before that so that’s not the cause. It’s made no difference.
He has company in with him both stabled and turned out.
He could probably do with more work but my only riding companion (which I need when he’s like this) is a very calm influence but not up to doing more.
I’m just a bit devastated really, that sounds a bit drama queen but his mood really seems to
Impact my entire life as much as I try not to let it!
Several people have commented it’s a really mental thing with him. I can and do daily ride him off the yard alone with no issue, it only takes one thing to set him off though and once he is wound up that’s it.
For example, this week we come up behind two very quiet horses plodding along, they let us pass and as I turned for home he completely lost his rag, this continued til
I got home, at which point I can drop the reins and sit and chat with people.
Second a horse trotted up behind us and I was gone, pulled up to a slow canter and was back
In some kind of control but was saved by the fact the lady was going past my house and we got chatting so I bounced alongside! God knows where I’d have ended up had she passed me or gone the other way
The emotional highs and lows with this prat are just massive!!
Sorry that’s an essay but any ideas would be really gratefully received because right now I’m actually finding my brain consider a dealer and that’s really not me at all.
He has a definite tendency to slight hysteria. He’s very difficult to get his attention and hold it.
Last winter I fully admit to being at my wits end with him but also, I’m not sure scared is really correct as I still got on him every day but I felt relief at getting home in one piece and was unable to ride alone/go off road.
Had decided to call it a day but he has done physical issues and I can’t see is sellable (unless someone as gullible as me turns up)
Spring and summer came, as did a bit of head shaking but a huge improvement. Got to the point I was taking him for lessons with a fantastic teacher who has mainly focussed on getting and keeping his attention but in a really chilled way, he started to actually go nicely for more of the lesson than not now.
This was echoed in our hacks.
Until last week when he turned into a nightmare again.
Dashing from door to window in his stable (he’s slept all summer, lip by his knees)
He won’t settle in the field pacing around with his head in the air and eyes on stalks, grabs a mouthful then darts across the field to start again.
Very in his toes to ride. He has p’d off on the road once and tried several times.
If we meet other horse all hell breaks loose.
He instead of walking the last bit home nicely canters sideways with me literally just keeping a hold of him. I’d not dream or riding him out alone at the moment.
I can’t bear the thought of another winter like this.
Last winter I tried various calmers but nothing makes any difference, I’ve spoken last week to the guy from Trinity and we are trying Evenkeel but only a few days in. I don’t ever ride weekends as I work more but he’s spent the day dashing round the stable and was like turning giraffe out! He’s now pacing round like he can hear the hunt.
Nothing changed, he’s on the same feed/routine as all summer. He could live out but from last years experience the next stage is ploughing through fencing and not being there in the morning.
Any ideas? I’m just gutted that this has happened again, especially when I really thought this summer we had made such huge progress.
Saddle/teeth/physio etc all very much up to date.
I’ve just moved him onto better grass incase he was hungry but it started before that so that’s not the cause. It’s made no difference.
He has company in with him both stabled and turned out.
He could probably do with more work but my only riding companion (which I need when he’s like this) is a very calm influence but not up to doing more.
I’m just a bit devastated really, that sounds a bit drama queen but his mood really seems to
Impact my entire life as much as I try not to let it!
Several people have commented it’s a really mental thing with him. I can and do daily ride him off the yard alone with no issue, it only takes one thing to set him off though and once he is wound up that’s it.
For example, this week we come up behind two very quiet horses plodding along, they let us pass and as I turned for home he completely lost his rag, this continued til
I got home, at which point I can drop the reins and sit and chat with people.
Second a horse trotted up behind us and I was gone, pulled up to a slow canter and was back
In some kind of control but was saved by the fact the lady was going past my house and we got chatting so I bounced alongside! God knows where I’d have ended up had she passed me or gone the other way
The emotional highs and lows with this prat are just massive!!
Sorry that’s an essay but any ideas would be really gratefully received because right now I’m actually finding my brain consider a dealer and that’s really not me at all.