bandit
Well-Known Member
guys.... lets all please get a grip....
since when do we slate each other up when someone was just having a little moan in a place where we have always supported and offered help and advice??? We've all had a moan before and we've all supported each other, so please take a check on how people have reacted to her post - she's actually really very upset.
i know Kelly really well, we worked together for years, I know her horses, I've been to her yard and although I haven't met the others at the yard I have met one of them - the girl who does sometimes gives her lifts to shows and does very well herself BSJA.
Now Kelly was just having a little moan as the personalities at her yard have become 'odd' and she was just relaying the next installment of her issues with them. Whether or not it came across exactly as it was intended and how it is in 'real life', it doesn't give people the free for all to slate / slag her off, especially as the majority appear not to know her at all...
Of course Kelly is desperate to get to shows, to have lessons and to be helpful to others, but when has taking your own personal show jumps out of a paddock - becuase these odd people don't want Kelly and her friend to use them - but insist on NOT using their own wheel barrow - but Kelly's rational?? Kelly and her friend have provided support and encouragement to said ODD peoples kids - helping them with thier jumping etc... They've put up with said kids using and not returning everythign from tack to brushes etc... and not really made a fuss of it - it happens..??
I know for a fact that those short on transport really do rely and appreciate the offers of lifts and Kelly would always work around people's arrangments and help out in order to get lifts. If she had transport I also know she would offer up any spare spaces if people were at risk of loosing an opportunity to go to a show.
Whether or not people do give others lifts to a show is one thing, and it's not illegal to do so - it only becomes illegal and invalidates insurance if money were to change hands - Hire and Reward.
Please have a think before responding to posts so venumously - whether they are Kelly's or not. She's quite upset and if she has come across as 'spoilt' i can whole heartedly say she's not - she's the most generous person I htink you'll come across.... She helped me with Ludo, came with me (& drove me) to view my new horse Bonnie - let me ride her new horse Senza (scary ride!!) and took me on a hack with another horse...
Sorry for the long rant, but it upsets me to think you've all upset her over this, and lets hope the matter is closed..
Bx
since when do we slate each other up when someone was just having a little moan in a place where we have always supported and offered help and advice??? We've all had a moan before and we've all supported each other, so please take a check on how people have reacted to her post - she's actually really very upset.
i know Kelly really well, we worked together for years, I know her horses, I've been to her yard and although I haven't met the others at the yard I have met one of them - the girl who does sometimes gives her lifts to shows and does very well herself BSJA.
Now Kelly was just having a little moan as the personalities at her yard have become 'odd' and she was just relaying the next installment of her issues with them. Whether or not it came across exactly as it was intended and how it is in 'real life', it doesn't give people the free for all to slate / slag her off, especially as the majority appear not to know her at all...
Of course Kelly is desperate to get to shows, to have lessons and to be helpful to others, but when has taking your own personal show jumps out of a paddock - becuase these odd people don't want Kelly and her friend to use them - but insist on NOT using their own wheel barrow - but Kelly's rational?? Kelly and her friend have provided support and encouragement to said ODD peoples kids - helping them with thier jumping etc... They've put up with said kids using and not returning everythign from tack to brushes etc... and not really made a fuss of it - it happens..??
I know for a fact that those short on transport really do rely and appreciate the offers of lifts and Kelly would always work around people's arrangments and help out in order to get lifts. If she had transport I also know she would offer up any spare spaces if people were at risk of loosing an opportunity to go to a show.
Whether or not people do give others lifts to a show is one thing, and it's not illegal to do so - it only becomes illegal and invalidates insurance if money were to change hands - Hire and Reward.
Please have a think before responding to posts so venumously - whether they are Kelly's or not. She's quite upset and if she has come across as 'spoilt' i can whole heartedly say she's not - she's the most generous person I htink you'll come across.... She helped me with Ludo, came with me (& drove me) to view my new horse Bonnie - let me ride her new horse Senza (scary ride!!) and took me on a hack with another horse...
Sorry for the long rant, but it upsets me to think you've all upset her over this, and lets hope the matter is closed..
Bx