Identityincrisis
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Hi All
Help!
A bit of a back story, I have had my just turned 6 yr old Anglo for 3 years, he has been incredibly difficult to handle but we have overcome all of our issues and now have a great relationship, although it has been touch and go a few times!
Our longest challenge has been loading (Ive posted MANY times on here about his loading issues) anyway I tried, unsuccessfully, for 2 ½ years to load him, the closest I got was all 4 feet in the trailer, but the longest he stayed on was 5 minutes max! He was VERY, VERY nervous. Worth noting, when I went to collect him from his breeder he was sedated for travelling, this was never mentioned before buying so I think he has had some kind of bad experience, hence his reluctance to load since. I had two IH people out to him, 1 was useless and didnt even present him to the trailer! The other, after 9 x 2 hour sessions declared he was the most difficult loader hed seen! He got the furthest and got all 4 feet in the trailer.
4 weeks ago I had a meltdown (not at him, just the situation), got drunk and emailed Richard Maxwell. Max came out to us and had the horse loaded with the ramp up within 4 hours!! I was amazed!! He left us some homework, I stuck to it religiously but took it slower to allow the horse to become fully comfortable on the trailer. He was standing on the trailer, on his own, ramp up, eating hay for 30 minutes a time (if not longer) I decided all was fine to try for a short journey, now hindsight, I should have done a couple of things differently BUT we got maybe 200 yards down our drive, driving very slowly, and heard an almighty commotion, trailer shaking etc. Thankfully we decided to get out and check, we were talking to him from the outside of the box when my Dad pointed to the gaping hole in the side of the trailer, nothing could prepare me for what I saw when I went in, my beloved horse was UNDER the breast bar by his neck, the breast bar was bent up into a V, I couldnt release the bar because of the way it was bent. My Dad (bless him, completely un-horsey and shocked at the power of the horse to bend the bar to the extent he had) dropped the ramp, and given what had just happened the horse came our relatively calmly. After a check over, re-group and a short walk to calm ourselves, I decided to take him back to the trailer just to see if he would load, he did! I un-loaded, re-loaded then put him in the field to chill.
Were now 2 weeks post trauma soooo, where do I go from here? The trailer is just about repaired now, I have been practising loading since and he has been great! We are at the point where hes on the box on his own, eating hay again. How the hell do I build up the courage to move the trailer again? What do I do to ensure this doesnt happen again? How can I make it better for him?
Hind sight shows I should have cross tied him, and tied him A LOT shorter.
Max has suggested, and I know this will be highly controversial, travelling without the breast bar, cross tied very short. He said they regularly do this. And advised a longish journey, where as I had thought of moving a few feet, go in with him, reassure, and repeat?
Sorry for the epic post, I didnt want to drip feed. All help (please be gentle) will be greatly appreciated.
Help!
A bit of a back story, I have had my just turned 6 yr old Anglo for 3 years, he has been incredibly difficult to handle but we have overcome all of our issues and now have a great relationship, although it has been touch and go a few times!
Our longest challenge has been loading (Ive posted MANY times on here about his loading issues) anyway I tried, unsuccessfully, for 2 ½ years to load him, the closest I got was all 4 feet in the trailer, but the longest he stayed on was 5 minutes max! He was VERY, VERY nervous. Worth noting, when I went to collect him from his breeder he was sedated for travelling, this was never mentioned before buying so I think he has had some kind of bad experience, hence his reluctance to load since. I had two IH people out to him, 1 was useless and didnt even present him to the trailer! The other, after 9 x 2 hour sessions declared he was the most difficult loader hed seen! He got the furthest and got all 4 feet in the trailer.
4 weeks ago I had a meltdown (not at him, just the situation), got drunk and emailed Richard Maxwell. Max came out to us and had the horse loaded with the ramp up within 4 hours!! I was amazed!! He left us some homework, I stuck to it religiously but took it slower to allow the horse to become fully comfortable on the trailer. He was standing on the trailer, on his own, ramp up, eating hay for 30 minutes a time (if not longer) I decided all was fine to try for a short journey, now hindsight, I should have done a couple of things differently BUT we got maybe 200 yards down our drive, driving very slowly, and heard an almighty commotion, trailer shaking etc. Thankfully we decided to get out and check, we were talking to him from the outside of the box when my Dad pointed to the gaping hole in the side of the trailer, nothing could prepare me for what I saw when I went in, my beloved horse was UNDER the breast bar by his neck, the breast bar was bent up into a V, I couldnt release the bar because of the way it was bent. My Dad (bless him, completely un-horsey and shocked at the power of the horse to bend the bar to the extent he had) dropped the ramp, and given what had just happened the horse came our relatively calmly. After a check over, re-group and a short walk to calm ourselves, I decided to take him back to the trailer just to see if he would load, he did! I un-loaded, re-loaded then put him in the field to chill.
Were now 2 weeks post trauma soooo, where do I go from here? The trailer is just about repaired now, I have been practising loading since and he has been great! We are at the point where hes on the box on his own, eating hay again. How the hell do I build up the courage to move the trailer again? What do I do to ensure this doesnt happen again? How can I make it better for him?
Hind sight shows I should have cross tied him, and tied him A LOT shorter.
Max has suggested, and I know this will be highly controversial, travelling without the breast bar, cross tied very short. He said they regularly do this. And advised a longish journey, where as I had thought of moving a few feet, go in with him, reassure, and repeat?
Sorry for the epic post, I didnt want to drip feed. All help (please be gentle) will be greatly appreciated.