Trying to hold it together

Thanks guys, i wish i could just tell you all what it is that's causing all this stress, but at the moment I'm afraid i cant :(
on top of all this, OH is proving himself to be worse than useless, is showing no signs if moving out, and generally making things worse than they should be.
i am however pushing on and up, things will be sorted one day, and until then, i will continue to do my best for myself and my kids.
 
I hope things get better soon for you, it's really hard if OH is being difficult but treat him with contempt he deserves and don't let him drag you down. If he is that way inclined he will stay if he knows it upsets you, try to show him you're really not interested or bothered by him (difficult I know) and it might just work. It worked for my friend, as soon as she stopped showing she was being bothered by her OH he left her alone and moved on.
Good luck and I hope you're on the way back up
 
I've typed and deleted, typed and deleted and I'm still not sure what to say, and therefore whether I should say anything!

Just wanted to send some more positive thoughts your way and hope you keep the strength to get through whatever is going on x
 
I have the strength to keep going. Sometimes doesn't feel that way, but you don't know what you're capable of dealing with until you're faced with it sometimes. Every time i think i cant keep going, i take a breath, throw a wobbly, then dig in and get on with it. Its tough, but i know i have fantastic support, and one day I'll sit back, relax and know I've done ok :)
 
Its not about holding it together ,thats ****. Its about saying to your self I am me and I deserve better and I will have better , not some crock ,of holding it together. *******s to all that. Decide that you are an individual , and have an identity and start pushing back when life shoves you. Good luck.
 
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