MadGreyMare
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I'm not a troll I promise, but I cant post under my real username as it would be too obvious who I am and make the situation worse.
I've been on a yard for 5 years, didn't know YO before then but we instantly because close friends. Helping each other when times were tough
Fast forward to this year and my dad has come back into my life after a long absence. Him and his partner bought a horse and has been keeping it at ours.
Turns out once his partner got her feet under the table, she turns into mega ***** from hell. Spreading all sorts of rubbish about things me/my family have supposedly done to her, not to mention the web of lies I've repeatedly caught her out with.
My family no longer feel welcome and neither do I
Even YO has been acting funny with me, if dad/partner have to leave she loses 2 full livery, if I leave its 2 DIY.
To make matters worse my boy has gone down with laminitis (yes my own fault) but I've had no support from anyone, if anything I'm being kicked while I'm down
So what do I do? I've been offered spaces in two other places (although one wont work now as would be living out), it breaks my heart to leave as I think I'll be burning bridges. But I feel ill at the thought of going to see my horses at the mo not to mention my boy needs a slow easy introduction back onto grass and as he's bottom of the pecking order he gets chased around alot. Concussion is what has brought on this episode so very reluctant to turn back out when the time is right.
I've been on a yard for 5 years, didn't know YO before then but we instantly because close friends. Helping each other when times were tough
Fast forward to this year and my dad has come back into my life after a long absence. Him and his partner bought a horse and has been keeping it at ours.
Turns out once his partner got her feet under the table, she turns into mega ***** from hell. Spreading all sorts of rubbish about things me/my family have supposedly done to her, not to mention the web of lies I've repeatedly caught her out with.
My family no longer feel welcome and neither do I
Even YO has been acting funny with me, if dad/partner have to leave she loses 2 full livery, if I leave its 2 DIY.
To make matters worse my boy has gone down with laminitis (yes my own fault) but I've had no support from anyone, if anything I'm being kicked while I'm down
So what do I do? I've been offered spaces in two other places (although one wont work now as would be living out), it breaks my heart to leave as I think I'll be burning bridges. But I feel ill at the thought of going to see my horses at the mo not to mention my boy needs a slow easy introduction back onto grass and as he's bottom of the pecking order he gets chased around alot. Concussion is what has brought on this episode so very reluctant to turn back out when the time is right.