EmmaR
Well-Known Member
Hello,
I am more of a lurker than a poster but on the odd occasion I have posted I have received brilliant advice so here it goes!
Also sorry this isnt strictly CR but the aim was that he was meant to be a competition horse!
I have a 16.1 ex racer 7yrs old I got him a year ago and he has proved very difficult, he is extremely sensitive and things just dont seem to be improving.
He has had a number of visits to the vets and a number of issues which to be fair none are his fault but has recently been scoped for ulcers turned out he had grade 3 ulcers and has just finished his treatment, now the discussion with my vet was either he is a anxious, erratic horse due to the ulcers or he has ulcers because he is a anxious, erratic horse! Looks like it is the second option, he is an absolute dream to deal with on the ground, very quiet and polite and just generally a real sweetie and really affectionate, brilliant to lunge but as soon as you get on him he looses the plot. He has what I would describe as anxiety attacks, he is fine when you first get on and I walk him round on a long rein a few times on each rein then as soon as you pick up a contact he is anticipating what is going to happen next then when he gets it wrong he panics, once he starts panicking there is no getting through to him I literally have to try and stand him still which is easier said than done! And turn his head towards me to look at him and stroke his nose to calm him down which doesnt always work.
Im just beginning to feel he isnt ever going to mentally cope with ridden work, or I am doing it all wrong! I see people on here with ex racers doing so well with them in such a short space of time Im beginning to think its me! I have taken my time with him and tried to do everything correctly he has his back done every 3 months, teeth done every 6 months (which has just been done) and had a brand new saddle so everything checked and no problems it really doesnt feel pain related to me its seems psychological he is also extremely fussy and sensitive in the mouth he just never seems happy or comfortable and continuously fights me and throws his head around, I have tried a number of bits and even a hackamore which he was definitely happier in but far to strong, I have recently tried him in a myler combination comfort snaffle which is definitely the best so far he seems much happier and relaxed in it and we have far less fighting and head shaking, the first night I tried him in it he was fantastic schooled the best he has ever gone and I couldnt believe it I was so happy but since then has gone back to his panicky self.
I have tried pushing him through it and telling him to get on with it but this makes it 10 times worse, I have recently decided I am going to take him right back to basics and just walk for the next few weeks so he isnt always anticipating what we are doing next we started this last night and the battles we had to make him remain in walk was ridiculous, he is just so stressy even asking him to halt he throws an absolute head fit and Im just staring to feel a bit put out I have spent so much money on him I dont want to just give up but he is so difficult, I have rode so many horses in my time but he is by far the most difficult to ride, not in the sense of bucking and rearing he is just difficult and I cant even put my finger on it as to why, I feel I cant sit up straight on him either no matter how hard I try to sit dead straight he tilts me forward all the time.
Sorry this is crazily long!! Just to add if he is doing something he enjoys and wants to do i.e. jumping (his favourite!) he is an absolute dream most of the time never ever stops and trys his little heart out but can be a bit OTT. But I want to him to at least be able to walk, trot, canter on an outline whilst schooling!
Any advice pleassseeeee!!!
Thanks so much for reading if you got this far I only have sweet chilli chicken and cheese baguette on offer Im afraid!!
Thanks again
I am more of a lurker than a poster but on the odd occasion I have posted I have received brilliant advice so here it goes!
Also sorry this isnt strictly CR but the aim was that he was meant to be a competition horse!
I have a 16.1 ex racer 7yrs old I got him a year ago and he has proved very difficult, he is extremely sensitive and things just dont seem to be improving.
He has had a number of visits to the vets and a number of issues which to be fair none are his fault but has recently been scoped for ulcers turned out he had grade 3 ulcers and has just finished his treatment, now the discussion with my vet was either he is a anxious, erratic horse due to the ulcers or he has ulcers because he is a anxious, erratic horse! Looks like it is the second option, he is an absolute dream to deal with on the ground, very quiet and polite and just generally a real sweetie and really affectionate, brilliant to lunge but as soon as you get on him he looses the plot. He has what I would describe as anxiety attacks, he is fine when you first get on and I walk him round on a long rein a few times on each rein then as soon as you pick up a contact he is anticipating what is going to happen next then when he gets it wrong he panics, once he starts panicking there is no getting through to him I literally have to try and stand him still which is easier said than done! And turn his head towards me to look at him and stroke his nose to calm him down which doesnt always work.
Im just beginning to feel he isnt ever going to mentally cope with ridden work, or I am doing it all wrong! I see people on here with ex racers doing so well with them in such a short space of time Im beginning to think its me! I have taken my time with him and tried to do everything correctly he has his back done every 3 months, teeth done every 6 months (which has just been done) and had a brand new saddle so everything checked and no problems it really doesnt feel pain related to me its seems psychological he is also extremely fussy and sensitive in the mouth he just never seems happy or comfortable and continuously fights me and throws his head around, I have tried a number of bits and even a hackamore which he was definitely happier in but far to strong, I have recently tried him in a myler combination comfort snaffle which is definitely the best so far he seems much happier and relaxed in it and we have far less fighting and head shaking, the first night I tried him in it he was fantastic schooled the best he has ever gone and I couldnt believe it I was so happy but since then has gone back to his panicky self.
I have tried pushing him through it and telling him to get on with it but this makes it 10 times worse, I have recently decided I am going to take him right back to basics and just walk for the next few weeks so he isnt always anticipating what we are doing next we started this last night and the battles we had to make him remain in walk was ridiculous, he is just so stressy even asking him to halt he throws an absolute head fit and Im just staring to feel a bit put out I have spent so much money on him I dont want to just give up but he is so difficult, I have rode so many horses in my time but he is by far the most difficult to ride, not in the sense of bucking and rearing he is just difficult and I cant even put my finger on it as to why, I feel I cant sit up straight on him either no matter how hard I try to sit dead straight he tilts me forward all the time.
Sorry this is crazily long!! Just to add if he is doing something he enjoys and wants to do i.e. jumping (his favourite!) he is an absolute dream most of the time never ever stops and trys his little heart out but can be a bit OTT. But I want to him to at least be able to walk, trot, canter on an outline whilst schooling!
Any advice pleassseeeee!!!
Thanks so much for reading if you got this far I only have sweet chilli chicken and cheese baguette on offer Im afraid!!
Thanks again