nikkimariet
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She is a very happy mare and I will continue to use the chifney ......better to be safe than sorry, for her safety and for mine .
Second this.
She is a very happy mare and I will continue to use the chifney ......better to be safe than sorry, for her safety and for mine .
Zany do you really believe that there is not one horse in the world who was simply born odd? Especially when they are the product of generations of breeding designed to produce movement and not taking account of temperament? Where others in the family show the same behaviour? I find that German horses are known for being much calmer, in general, than KWPN with Dutch origins, for precisely the reason that KWPNs were focussed on their huge movement while the German's also bred for trainability.
The true reason my horse behaves the way he does from time to time (not on any timetable, at random) is because he is mentally unstable, just like some people are mentally unstable. He's a fragile, neurotic brained creature in a huge, athletically capable body. He looks very like Mistral Hojris, and that's a horse who has taken until he is 15 to consent to work on a regular basis, and even now there are days that they bring him out when he will not play nice, and they put him back on the lorry.
I do understand that you are not criticising me, please don't think that I do. But I can't understand how anyone who spends time with either humans or other animals can't see that some horses are born with undesireable behaviour hard-wired.
This is, by the way, NO excuse for idiots who don't know what they are doing to go hauling their horses about in a chifney! But they are a very useful tool to have in the toolbox.
You put "mentally unstable" in inverted commas and clearly again are telling me that you think I am wrong, when you've never met this horse. First you tell me that he can't possibly look as if he is on drugs. Now that he cannot be "mentally unstable". You seem to think I don't know my own horse.
There is no evidence of any kind that he did NOT get good training from the start. He was well started by the man I bought him from, I know that, and he came direct from stud unbroken, so I doubt anyone had messed him up at the stud. You just don't believe that some horses can just act nuts from time to time for no reason at all, no matter how good their training has been, do you?
Have you ever come across a horse who after five years of hacking the same road will attempt to turn and run for home because last week the foxglove on the verge was full of purple flowers and this week the flowers are all gone? Do you seriously think that there is any training that will completely cure a horse as hypersensitive as that?
We have a difference of opinion here which we can never reconcile. You don't believe any horses like mine exist, or at least that they would not be that way "if only" they'd been trained properly from a baby. I know that they exist - he's out in my barn and someone else has his brother, poor girl. If you are ever in this country and want to meet the kind of horse you've never come across before, let me know!
You're jumping to conclusions again. I use " around ''mentally unstable'' because I want it to mean more and other things than just the definition of the words, and to include those that are said to be mentally unstable without being it.
I've never said anything about looking or not looking like he's on drugs. Never said that he's in pain everytime the bit is used - once he lernt to obey it. Never said you're wrong to use the bit (since you don't use it instead of training).
I really don't know why you keep arguing with me.
Apologies, Zabby, I mistook you for another poster who told me he did not look drugged when he goes off on one. I also want to apologise for getting your name wrong in a post. It was a genuine mistake and not an attempt to be rude, though I will completely understand if no-one believes me on that.
I keep arguing with you because I find it a fascinating discussion every time it comes up, here or anywhere else - can people/horses be born bad or are they only ever made that way?
But if you don't want to discuss it, don't, that's fine.
Apologies, Zabby, I mistook you for another poster who told me he did not look drugged when he goes off on one. I also want to apologise for getting your name wrong in a post. It was a genuine mistake and not an attempt to be rude, though I will completely understand if no-one believes me on that.
I keep arguing with you because I find it a fascinating discussion every time it comes up, here or anywhere else - can people/horses be born bad or are they only ever made that way?
But if you don't want to discuss it, don't, that's fine.
I, too am fascinated by the the theory, are some horses born bad? But what is bad and what is mad? I often think that if my mare were human she would be under sedation in a padded cell. She is a gentle soul, but lives on her nerves. The slightest change in environment will trigger an over reactive response. I deal with her in a very quiet, relaxed manner, something I have had to learn to do a I am naturally fiery and impatient. She has taught me so much and for that I am grateful.![]()
WHAT?! while it was ridden!! i didn't think you could ride in them!!!!
I'm sure I've seen racehorses ridden in them.
There is a ring bit used by racehorses which gives control to the uncontrollable, that might be what he was wearing.I recently saw a horse wearing one on the hunting field!I was speechless!
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Yes I thought you weren't reading what I was writing. So I will ask the question again.
The horse is genetically programmed to be extremely over emotional and over reactive. His father is himself described as "quirky" and throws stock with similar traits to my own.
I have spent five years improving his behaviour beyond recognition in the face of my friends questionning why I continue with him at all. He will now stay in a stable rather than climb the door. He will travel quietly as opposed to taking out the windows. He will hack out past hens that he used to insist were going to kill him. He will follow me anywhere and he cries if I leave him. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.
He throws separation anxiety behaviour on loading roughly once every three months. I handle him mainly completely naked (him not me) most of the time and the rest in a headcollar and lead rope if we are going somewhere. The separation anxiety can occur with horses that he has only seen in a collecting ring and has no relationship with, but who he suddenly decides he is not prepared to leave.
You are so insistent that I should not need a chifney for him if only I had him properly trained. How would you retrain this horse not to need a chifney on that one time in three months?
Genuine question, why is this stallion being used as a breeding horse (your horses sire) if his offspring take on such serious personality 'traits' just for a use of word? Surely a horse should only be used to breed judged on being a very good example of its breed and that means temperament/ trainability too? A few small quirks you could understand but climbing stable doors, acting dangerous when travelling and appearing to be on drugs is surely not a trait you want in any horse.
Another parelli dually fluffy bunny by any chance?
I use chifneys, gags, spurs, draw reins, standing martingales and two reins on horses. I must be one of the most evil people going- but my horses are all happy...