R2R
Well-Known Member
Though I was very unsure as to whether this should be in NL
The drama of my life I tell you!
In short, I have been friends with someone since I was 7 and we went to primary school together. We lost touch when I changed schools but stayed in touch via xmas/birthday cards etc. When facebook was invented we got back in touch again, caught up, and have been close friends for a year. In the past year she has been a massive part of my life and is now dating one of OHs friends etc.
She has told me
1) She competed her now retired pony to JA level
2) She broke in my ex-YOs top youngster
3) She has competed to novice eventing and schooled to intermediate
4) She has competed to medium affiliated dressage
5) She had a very successful yard in Hampshire which she ran a business in, and sold in mid-2008 for £50k
6) As part of this yard she had a successful dealing business
7) She has her AI
As well as a host of other stuff, but these are all horse related.
Even though I do not actively compete very often, the majority of my friends do, and no one knew her from the circuit. One of my friends had particular issue with this as sees right through people, and called the BSJA to check her horse/personal record. Neither friend or horse were registered. Further digging has shown she has never been registered BD or BE either, and that she didnt ever have a livery yard or dealing business. I really want to confirm this for definite, and find out more about her life in Hampshire, as if I am going to confront her I want firm conclusive evidence. I am now seriously doubting whether she has her AI, or, in fact, anything she says is the truth.
So, my question is, how to handle it? I recently asked (subtlety) her about her BSJA record and she completely flew off the handle. She has infiltrated (is that the right word) my social circle, even going on one of my best friends hen dos in the Summer. I am so upset by all of her lies and manipulation I called the maid of honour last night and said I couldnt go so I am missing one of great friends hens because of this girls lies and oddness. Am also stuck with the issue that she is dating one of my OHs friends, so there really is no escape
The drama of my life I tell you!
In short, I have been friends with someone since I was 7 and we went to primary school together. We lost touch when I changed schools but stayed in touch via xmas/birthday cards etc. When facebook was invented we got back in touch again, caught up, and have been close friends for a year. In the past year she has been a massive part of my life and is now dating one of OHs friends etc.
She has told me
1) She competed her now retired pony to JA level
2) She broke in my ex-YOs top youngster
3) She has competed to novice eventing and schooled to intermediate
4) She has competed to medium affiliated dressage
5) She had a very successful yard in Hampshire which she ran a business in, and sold in mid-2008 for £50k
6) As part of this yard she had a successful dealing business
7) She has her AI
As well as a host of other stuff, but these are all horse related.
Even though I do not actively compete very often, the majority of my friends do, and no one knew her from the circuit. One of my friends had particular issue with this as sees right through people, and called the BSJA to check her horse/personal record. Neither friend or horse were registered. Further digging has shown she has never been registered BD or BE either, and that she didnt ever have a livery yard or dealing business. I really want to confirm this for definite, and find out more about her life in Hampshire, as if I am going to confront her I want firm conclusive evidence. I am now seriously doubting whether she has her AI, or, in fact, anything she says is the truth.
So, my question is, how to handle it? I recently asked (subtlety) her about her BSJA record and she completely flew off the handle. She has infiltrated (is that the right word) my social circle, even going on one of my best friends hen dos in the Summer. I am so upset by all of her lies and manipulation I called the maid of honour last night and said I couldnt go so I am missing one of great friends hens because of this girls lies and oddness. Am also stuck with the issue that she is dating one of my OHs friends, so there really is no escape