Karran
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Nothing!! We don't celebrate christmas, if we need something and have the money we buy it when we want it, if not we save up. Don't need a "special" day to do that!
Haha Maisie, sounds like my thoughts exactly. Same as when people look surprised when my OH and I never buy anything for each other for our birthdays or anniversaries.
I'd rather he got me a surprise spur of the moment present because he saw it and thought I'd like it, than feeling forced to get me something and panicking cos he didn't know what to get.
Some of my friends end up getting really competitive with their partners and are of the mindset "well he spent 100 on me, so I've got to spend more than that."