lucky7
Well-Known Member
I have a bit of a dilemma and a decision to make.
Basically i have 2 horses, i will always have 2 as i have my own land so i need two together for company
the plan was as soon as my current baby has been backed i would sell one then i would buy another baby to bring on and sell. I love all the groundwork involved in with a youngster and the sense of achievement, i do all groundwork/long reining etc myself then i have someone in for a week to ride away (late autumn of 3rd year), turn away till end of winter, back into work slowly for the spring do a few local shows then sell on as a 4yr old (this was the plan!) i still have horse A as i really like her. She is like a security blanket.
Now horse A, a Cob, i have a strong attachment too and i didn't want to sell her, she is so easy to do, lovely character, hacks alone/in company, nice pop in her, loads etc just a general fab allrounder, thing is she struggles with flat work, She has been ridden by a professional dressage rider who agrees it is a physical issue - maybe mouth? as she feels/look sound (a serious contact/bending/one sideness issue). The pro feels if i carry on schooling her/pushing her or working her through it she may break
i could spend ££££ trying to find out the cause, then what? besides i had a sad experience with a mare i had previously who ended up being PTS at 7 due to underlying issues.
She is fine when out hacking/jumping etc this problem shows when schooling only, she resists and throws head about and is unsettled in the mouth. These issues started as soon as she was backed but now showing more the more i school her, we have tried everything and cannot find reason, put it down to schooling but its not that either. The dentist is scheduled to come out again for a final check.
pro has suggested i sell her as she will struggle with what i want to do with her and concentrate on the youngster, maybe to someone who just wants to hack/jump etc and no dressage, she is very very safe and not a plod, goes anywhere bold jumper etc but i don't know if she would pass a vetting? no-one can see anything wrong? so am unsure on value
Now my other horse is very nice, section D, well bred and put together, flashy, moves nicely and has the right temperament and as the pro says is probably going to be more suited to what i want to do. He is recently been backed and still very much a baby (he's 3yrs 8 months) and is going sweetly and i feel i do want to keep him and see how he gets on. Now am not out to set the world on fire (as if
) but i would like to be able to show at county level and do novice/elementary dressage.
Likewise i could bumble along with the cob but i can't help but feel frustrated which isnt fair on neither of us.
So, option A
Sell the cob, keep the baby and concentrate on him - buy another baby to bring on.
Option B
Find a sharer, can still ride the cob, hack/hunt will know she will be safe with me, keep the youngster concentrate on him, no new baby
Option C
My mum rides and is looking for another ned, she would be well suited to mine - loan her long term and get another baby to bring on but possibly lose out on money from a sale?
My head says option A but heart says option C.......and my OH will say option A too................
I have such strong attachments to this horse and really trust her, but deep down i know she's not going to be able to do the things i want her for and its unfair to push her. BUT if i sold her i know i would regret it....................
******, why can't horses talk?!
Basically i have 2 horses, i will always have 2 as i have my own land so i need two together for company
Now horse A, a Cob, i have a strong attachment too and i didn't want to sell her, she is so easy to do, lovely character, hacks alone/in company, nice pop in her, loads etc just a general fab allrounder, thing is she struggles with flat work, She has been ridden by a professional dressage rider who agrees it is a physical issue - maybe mouth? as she feels/look sound (a serious contact/bending/one sideness issue). The pro feels if i carry on schooling her/pushing her or working her through it she may break
She is fine when out hacking/jumping etc this problem shows when schooling only, she resists and throws head about and is unsettled in the mouth. These issues started as soon as she was backed but now showing more the more i school her, we have tried everything and cannot find reason, put it down to schooling but its not that either. The dentist is scheduled to come out again for a final check.
pro has suggested i sell her as she will struggle with what i want to do with her and concentrate on the youngster, maybe to someone who just wants to hack/jump etc and no dressage, she is very very safe and not a plod, goes anywhere bold jumper etc but i don't know if she would pass a vetting? no-one can see anything wrong? so am unsure on value
Now my other horse is very nice, section D, well bred and put together, flashy, moves nicely and has the right temperament and as the pro says is probably going to be more suited to what i want to do. He is recently been backed and still very much a baby (he's 3yrs 8 months) and is going sweetly and i feel i do want to keep him and see how he gets on. Now am not out to set the world on fire (as if
Likewise i could bumble along with the cob but i can't help but feel frustrated which isnt fair on neither of us.
So, option A
Sell the cob, keep the baby and concentrate on him - buy another baby to bring on.
Option B
Find a sharer, can still ride the cob, hack/hunt will know she will be safe with me, keep the youngster concentrate on him, no new baby
Option C
My mum rides and is looking for another ned, she would be well suited to mine - loan her long term and get another baby to bring on but possibly lose out on money from a sale?
My head says option A but heart says option C.......and my OH will say option A too................
I have such strong attachments to this horse and really trust her, but deep down i know she's not going to be able to do the things i want her for and its unfair to push her. BUT if i sold her i know i would regret it....................
******, why can't horses talk?!
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