Why can't people mind there own business! - Rant - Long

josephinebutter2

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Just need to get this off my chest – and thought you lovely people were just the ones to hear me moan!

I have recently started sharing horsey chores with a friend i.e. he does both our horses in the mornings and I do evenings. Horses are on separate small yards within one big yard, about 100 yards away.

Anyway, got them both in from the field yesterday, tied them both up on his yard, washed his horses feet off and put him in his stable with a haynet and couldn’t see any dinner left out. I said to people on his yard do you know where his dinner is, and they said no. So took my boy over to my yard, started washing his legs off and text my friend to see if he had forgot to leave it out. He had left it in his chest as the mice had been getting to it and forgot to let me know.

Went back over a couple of minutes later, and saw that there was only one bowl of food in there (usually 2, one for breakfast). Went to his stable and the horse was munching away. They had called him and said I hadn’t given his horse any dinner and that they would do it for him.

Is it just me or is that s**t stirring! Two thinks really piss me off about this. 1) I was only 100yards away, if they were really concerned that the horse wasn’t going to get any dinner, why didn’t they come and ask me – they know I do his horse in the evenings now. 2) Had I have finished my horse off before going back over to feed him, he may have ended up having two dinners which could have given him colic.

Also found out they have been bitching that I just wash his legs off and chuck him in his stable for the night. What they don’t reaslise is that I do that, go and do my horse, then go back and pick his feet out, adjust his rugs and clean his eye up (he gets a gammy eye), as I don’t like leaving my horse tied up at their yard for too long. Coz they are gone by then, they don’t see this and have just assumed that I don’t bother. AHHHHHH!!

Spoke to my friend this morning and he said he was a bit confused as he got a text from me and a call from them, so explained to him and at least all is OK with us now.

Rant over!
 
OMG thats terrible. bet you glad your not at that yard... I shouldnt worry about it, I'm sure the guy trust you other wise he would'nt let you do his horse. Some people are just terrible. At least your not one of them....:-)
 
tempting to get sarcastic and say something to them like "I didn't realise you needed a demonstration of how to set rugs fair and pick out feet. If I'd known that I'd have done it whilst you were around to observe and learn the correct procedure instead of doing them after you'd gone home"

Love to see their faces if you said that to them..........................
 
Man that does sound bitchy. I can understand why you are mad. So what you are saying is that they blatantly LIED to you when they said they didn't know where the feed was and then called your friend and lied to him as well saying you 'hadn't fed his horse'.
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I hate people like this.

Just one thought occured to me, could it be because your friend is a bloke. Sometimes men are such a 'rarity' on yards that the girls get a bit possessive. Maybe they feel threatened by your friendship (especially as you are on the 'other' yard) and they feel that he is 'their bloke' on 'their' yard.

Not that this is an excuse but it sounds like the sort of petty game some girls play when men are involved.

I think you need to be really really honest with your friend about what you are/aren't doing with his horse if you are aware that there is this sort of s**t stirring is going on and make sure that he knows to talk to you first if he hears anything bad said about your looking after his horse.

Good luck what a spiteful pair these people sound.
J
 
When I went to see my friend this morning, he said it's probably coz they are missing him and finally found an excuse to call him up - he he!

You are probably right about the jealousy thing, but they are all married ladies, over 30 and he is also married with two kids!
 
Leave a huge script on the horse's door listing your movements;

I have done 'this', I am going to do 'that' and will be going to do 'the other' in between. Please call me on my mobile (insert number) if you have any queries about the order of procedures so I may prevent you calling his owner and making fools of yourselves. Jo xx
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or just get a piece of paper, write "I am still here", laminate it and when you arrive, stick to your friends horses stable door. head off, sort your own horse and when finished with your friends remove it.

if you see any of the "ladies" in his yard hanging about just say it to them. you are putting it there to avoid confusion like what happened the other night and walk away.

totally understand why you would be peed off with that kind of behaviour but thats humans for you!!!!
 
Just ignore them. You know what you are doing, the man you share chores with knows what you are doing......end of story.
 
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