Why do people look down their nose at Happy Hackers? *Sorry - Long*

madmax1

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Hello,

I am fed up with the stigma attached to horse people who do not compete. I have been classically trained and use some natural horsemanship methods. My horses live out and yet their coats all shine - this shine comes from the feed and the care they receive and not from a spray bottle.

Regardless of the fact that I know my stuff and been into horses for nearly 20 years I have heard a particular local refer to me as a "Happy Hacker" and a "Novice". Yes I hack, there is nothing better than being free, exploring with your best friend, yes I school at home and no I do not compete - is that a crime? Does that make me any less of a horse person?

I know my horses are healthier and happier than a couple riding club horses I know locally, albeit my horses might get a bit muddy. In my opinion, I allow my horses to be a Horse - They live out (unless really bad weather) and yes they get dirty - in my book that is not neglect, its natural.

Does anyone else have the same feeling of being a second grade horse person just because you do not compete?

Anyway for all those knowledgeable horse people out there who feel you must apologise for not competing, I thought I would share the letter below.

I found this letter on a different website recently, it was written by a lady called Dawn;




TO ALL HAPPY HACKERS!!

What is the toughest riding discipline of them all? Which is the most important, the most difficult, the most dangerous?

I shall tell you: but first of all let me outline for you the dizzying array of skills necessary.

You need, above all, a sense of calmness and trust. Without that you won't get anywhere. But you have to combine relaxation with a constant awareness of the considerable difficulties and dangers that surround you. You need to be able to sit in a way that fills the horse with confidence.

You need to master all the basic paces. Horse and rider both need to be relaxed at all of them, from halt to gallop. You need comfortable, instant lateral work, particularly off the right leg. You need calm, soft unfidgety hands. Your aim is to combine calmness and confidence with dynamic and forward-going movement at all paces.

You need your horse to cope with other horses, close by or at a distance. Your horse needs to be sociable when among strangers and friends yet happily independent when on his own. You need balance and control; but with a sense of freedom and adventure.

You need to trust your horse in extreme situations. You must allow your horse to be a wild animal and express himself with joy and abandon and yet you must be able to bring him back to civilisation with a touch, a shift in balance, a word.

But above all, you need to understand each other's fears; each other's limits, each other's strengths and weaknesses. You need to deal with situations that terrify a horse but hold no danger to him; you must deal with situations that terrify you, without imparting your terror to your horse. You must be able to deal with potentially life-threatening situations and to do so with great frequency. You must deal with them in a way that is completely calm and relaxed, as if it were the easiest thing in the world.

The reason you must bring out all these high skills in yourself and your horse is because everybody's life depends on them. But then you must get used to the fact that your painfully acquired skills are held in low esteem - even despised in some quarters.

The discipline I am talking about is hacking. Nothing is more dangerous - yet more pleasurable - to human and horse alike. If you can hack out safely, alone or in company, you are a real rider!

If you can deal with such things as school buses, Volvo drivers, pheasants flying up at your feet, a long, long canter track, boy racers, fluttering paper bags, gloriously inviting gallops, pigs, cows, overhanging trees, fields of lunatic horses and the most scarey thing of all, the wheelie bin that wasn't there yesterday, then you can count yourself a hacker. Or to put it another way, a very good rider indeed.

And yet, even if you are the master of all those things, your skills might be sneered at. So you apologise in advance - oh I just hack out. I'm just a happy hacker.

What? Only a master of the most testing and demanding and dangerous discipline in the horsey world, that's all. You have to defer to obsessive show jumpers, dressage queens of either relations and showing people who prefer polishing horses to riding them - all these people are too precious to take their horse out for a merry hack and who think they're better than you on that account.

Let's not be snobbish back, however. Every way of enjoying your horse that doesn't harm him is alright by me. So we won't ask what's so marvellous about going round and round in circles and why it is so superior to a great cantering blast up the hill, and we shan't point out that while a square halt is hard, it's far, far more difficult to get your horse to stand still while an articulated lorry goes past. Especially when it then stops and whistles its brakes at you.

So let's make this Hacker's Pride Month. Say it out loud; I hack and I'm proud! We won't be snooty about it though. We won't say, I know the real reason you won't hack out. It's not because you're Anky von Grunsven and Bonfire come again. It's because you are ever so slightly scared. And I'm not; so I hack.

No, we won't say it. We'll just think it very quietly when someone looks at you with condescension because you've been for a hack while they have spent an hour trying to establish a leg yield. I've got nothing against leg-yielding myself but I do have a great deal against snobbery.

No one will celebrate hackers for their skills of horsemanship, their mastery of fear, their overcoming of horsey temperament, so it is only right that we should do it for ourselves. Salute the hackers! Damn we're good.

And if you have any doubts on that score, just ask our horses!
 
I do compete and hack. but I too can not understand the term 'Happy Hacker' when used in a negative way!!

I wonder if it is one of those terms/words that has a meaning to it for 'certain' things/people but others get stuck with it because of what they do not what they are capable of. I just posted about 'cobs' this is another one that gets tarred with the same brush so to speak. Generally as a term it makes us think of large stocky, plods. However the reality is not the same

I do know some people that only hack, and really as you say it is harder than a lot of competition work but they while effective do not have what they call the correct look to compete. Why I don't know that is they're opinion. Also some people either don't want to compete or have been there done that and now according to them slowing down.

Not sure if that makes sense though

Oh well I know what I mean
 
Am also a proud happy hacker! I do sometimes feel rather below those that compete on the yard as I would really like to compete more but my mare needs more work and I'm v nervous of competing too!
I am generally a yard oddity anyway as my girl lives out as much as possible (in for frosts as the sugary grass does her no good, and in when there is lots of rain so that we save the field a bit), no shoes as her feet are excellent, I don't fully clip her, I also don't stick a heavyweight rug on when it is 15 deg or 5 stable rugs at night, she doesn't have masses of hard feed or fancy supplements - oh and she looks utterly fantastic and glowing with health and fitness on this regieme!!
Yay for the hackers!!!
 
Having a 'safe hack', a responsive, listening horse, out and about anywhere is imo a measure of someones horsemanship skills. :)

Mta... that's of course different to someone who can sit on an unruly horse! Who may be a limpit in disguise.
 
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I too think it is a shame people say " just a happy hacker" There is so much more to hacking!! As others have said it is dangerous just going out on the road! You can have so much fun hacking for miles (especially if you have lovely bridleways). The horses love it.

Competing is not for everyone and is quite stressful. We are here to enjoy our horses and that is the way it should be.

I am a happy person who is happy hacking out, my horse is happy hacking out so really we are happy hackers. I also like to school and would like to eventually take my boy out BUT i still say I am a happy hacker who aspires to hopefully go out and enjoy competing once we are ready BUT if for any reason I/my horse isn't happy competing or becomes more stressful than fun then I won't go and I won't feel any less of a rider/horseowner for hacking/schooling only.

:)
 
I too am a proud happy hacker. I was a horse professional for years, qualified and updated regularly before it became the done thing. However I have never been so content as over the last 10yrs since being on various DIY yards and having absolutely no pressures except enjoying time with my horses. Fantastic. I just wish all horse owners could find such contentment. We have travelled miles together and I hope we have many more before I hang up my boots :D
 
Did you see the post on another thread, where the poster could not understand why a rider 'who doesn't even compete' might want to ride her horse twice a day?
That was certainly derogatory in tone!
I see many competitors (SJ'ers particularly) who think that riding doesn't entail control of the horse at all paces. They tell every-one that they compete, when in fact they jump clear round courses at extremely small local shows!
 
When I first moved to my yard only 1 other person hacked out. When I asked why not many did the main answer was 'we're nervous to hack out!!!' :confused: This was from people who competed most weekends to quiet high levels!!! We have access to acres of fields to gallop through and they didn't use them!! Madness to me who couldn't wait to get going!! Luckily now alot more do hack and we all enjoy the beautiful countryside but my YO'er always points new liveries in my direction as the one to take them out to learn the routes...wouldn't mind but my lad isn't the shining example of sane sensible hacker she thinks he is!! Lol! Half the time it's the people I'm supposed to be escorting who have to get my lad past a very scarey monster hiding in the bushes!!:D

I'm proud to be a Happy hacker and love nothing better than finding new rides and places to go...just waiting for my new lorry to be ready and we'll be going even further afield!
 
I'm proud to be a Happy hacker and love nothing better than finding new rides and places to go...just waiting for my new lorry to be ready and we'll be going even further afield!

Good point! :) Can't wait to get my trailer so I can load him up and go to the beach, the forest or anywhere exciting for a good old hack :)
 
I am a happy hacker and proud!

Me too...here here!

OP, very true, a good point made there.

Although I dabble in other things at times, I'm a firm believer 'you learn to ride properly when your out hacking, not in the school' :D well....you learn how to stay on! :D as well as manage and adapt to different horses.
 
Soulfull – I know exactly what you mean.

Serephin – we will be proud together

Glosgirl – You go girl???? I keep mine barefoot with minimum rugs and feeds and they still shine.

Amandap – thank you – I think right and my mare goes right.

Boogles – thank you for being so kind

Balibee – that is because you are a horse lover – your friendship with your horse is more important than the activity.

Azmar – well done – I too hope you enjoy many many more miles

Pearlsasinger – lol – that totally describes the people that I have heard put me down.

Thank you for all your lovely comments, I am now holding my head high – I will try not to let narrow minded peeps bother me from now on. x
 
better than being an unhappy hacker lol!!!

There's loads of people at my yard that don't even hack as they are too scared! They go in the school all the time, but doesn't mean their horses are well schooled either unfortunately if you know what I mean...

It always annoyed me when people said my friends horses were 'just hunters' as they were very safe, sensible horses that could jump anything put in front of them, and then be able to stand still for ages too. We went on a pub hack once and they were the only horses there that stood still in the car park :)
 
Our yard is a total mix of happy hackers and competition riders but I cant say I have ever seen anyone look down at anyone else for not competing?

If anything I think they must look down at us wondering why we go to the bother of it all - esp the way in which the letter is worded ie - why does anyone want to canter round in circles, practise leg yield, square halt - surely Dawn is looking and judging comp riders in the same way she doesnt want to be judged by them?
 
I LOVE hacking! My OH comes with the dog and we will be out for HOURS! I'm well known at my new yard for my hacking and have come from being an oddball for doing it at my old yard to being quite popular at my new yard as other people want to come with me.

It has done wonders for both mine and K's confidence and are often seen going up or down the high st. We often stop at either my parents or OHs mums for a drink on the way out and either the pub or cricket club on the way back.

It has taught my horse patience, trust, and bravery amongst a multitude of other things.

I am a proud Queen of Hacking! :D
 
Fantastic - people of like mind.:D
I have no ambition or intention to compete.
Apparently because I'm a "happy hacker" I know sod all about horses and riding yet they who mock daren't even ride down the dead end lane next to the yard for fear of what my happen. :confused:
Yet I have seen some of them ride and all I will say is that I was shocked!!!
They are missing out on fantastic early morning beach rides, rides through the forest with only the birds and other animals for company. You get much closer to nature on the back of a horse!
Besides I enjoy the time alone with my horse without fear of being sneered at for talking to her while we hack:D
 
farma

I really feel put down all the time. :-(

As for the letter - I totally agree - I did pick up on that tone towards the end of the letter - thats why I made it clear I did not write it.

I like the rest of the letter tho.

I do not mind what people do with their horses, as long as the horse is cared for - any activity to be enjoyed with horses is cool.

x
 
Marianneip – that is lovely – i taught my OH to ride now he comes with me

Micramadam – I talk to me horses too



Thank you too all for posting, I am going to log off now to go for a ickle hack.

x
 
I do not mind what people do with their horses, as long as the horse is cared for - any activity to be enjoyed with horses is cool.

So true! I guess I'm a happy schooler, in that I love training horses (in the arena or out of it!) but couldn't care less about competing.
 
i've not met anyone who looks down on happy hackers tbh - and i class myself as one - as i hack 99% of the time on my horse - then compete occasionally for fun at low levels.

i do however - want my horse to look its best at all times and work her on hacks in an outline to build top line and do lateral work etc etc - this is not a competative thing - its a pride thing - i'm an ex professional groom so i want my horse to look its best

so to turn this on its head a bit - i have had derogitory comments from more tradtitional happy hackers regarding this - ie why do i bother when i only hack - whats the point etc and why don't we just relax and have fun/horse can't enjoy it when she's being worked/its cruel to work her in an outline for long hack yada yada yada = but to me that is what having my horse is about - to make her look the best she can - to me that IS my happy hacking!

but i don't look down the nose at people who decide not to do that - everyone is entitled to do what they enjoy :)
 
That’s all very cute.. but not really true is it.. hacking out is hardly the most difficult thing to do when riding!!

I wouldn’t let it bother you, horsey people look down their nose at lots of people for lots of different reasons… not just happy hackers!
 
Madmax1, my OH walks with me. He has learned to ride though and jumps better than me!

I think hacking can be demanding, we often do about 12 miles and encounter all sorts. Sadly most is roadwork but I don't mind. I can't wait until I can afford a trailer though!!
 
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