milesjess
Well-Known Member
Perhaps you should show your mother this thread?
As others have said sounds like a set up by a devious person. If she dislikes him and classes him as dangerous why suggests selling to her friend. Also, I think she is baking you into a corner and trying to turn you against him
She is a yard owner, regardless if she likes a horse or not she has absolutely no right at all to suggest selling/ pass on her opinion of a horse and even more so if she was a dressage rider I assume she has many years in the trade so the whole 'I worry before turning him out', sounds absolutely ridiculous.
If it was me, I'd honestly speak to her, tell her he is your horse and he is not for sale end of and she is to no longer express her unwanted opinion on him.
Sorry bit forceful but I feel so pee'd off for you! And your poor horse... He is a baby so of course he will be pushy etc, but I'm sure he's by no means 'slow', how dare she say that?!
I don't condone violence but if my boy was still alive and a comment like that was made the person would certainly no about it... Cheek of her!
Hope you sort it but please please don't sell him because she is pretty much bullying you and your mum and turning you against your own horse... All for her own gain, people in this world cannot be trusted regardless how friendly and helpful they may seem.
As others have said sounds like a set up by a devious person. If she dislikes him and classes him as dangerous why suggests selling to her friend. Also, I think she is baking you into a corner and trying to turn you against him
She is a yard owner, regardless if she likes a horse or not she has absolutely no right at all to suggest selling/ pass on her opinion of a horse and even more so if she was a dressage rider I assume she has many years in the trade so the whole 'I worry before turning him out', sounds absolutely ridiculous.
If it was me, I'd honestly speak to her, tell her he is your horse and he is not for sale end of and she is to no longer express her unwanted opinion on him.
Sorry bit forceful but I feel so pee'd off for you! And your poor horse... He is a baby so of course he will be pushy etc, but I'm sure he's by no means 'slow', how dare she say that?!
I don't condone violence but if my boy was still alive and a comment like that was made the person would certainly no about it... Cheek of her!
Hope you sort it but please please don't sell him because she is pretty much bullying you and your mum and turning you against your own horse... All for her own gain, people in this world cannot be trusted regardless how friendly and helpful they may seem.