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It's notnoften I ask for advice, but when faced with a situation I don't have vast experience in, I will not hesitate to seek advice and opinions from others, so here goes.
Some of you will know that last Wednesday morning, my 4yr old WBxTB mare reared on the road, went over backwards and landed on me. I have broken my pelvis, T12 and as I found out today, possibly L1 and L2 as well. Also two small fractures in my foot.
I am extremely lucky. Despite being sent home from hospital with no pain killers, apparently no broken bones and f all advice, I am actually quite mobile. I am totally pain and discomfort free 98% of the time. Just feels like Molly is still on me doing a dance off for the occasional few seconds it does hurt. Still no advice from doctors, got to speak to them tomorrow, so...all in all, I am very lucky to be walking. I can move around fairly easily, just slowly. Been helping with the girls (Fly amd Molly), but not lifting or doing anything strenuous.
My difficulty is in figuring out what tondo now. Molly has been fantastic through the whole working/backing experience. I have backed and started literally hundreds of horses and ponies, so am well experienced and it has all been done very slowly and she has been happy with everything. She's been more than happy...since the first time I got on, I can stand her by any mounting block, stone, bench etc...and she will stand perfectly with zero contact on the mouth while i get on and will wait as long as I want, not walking until I ask. She has not cantered yet as I have been mainly hacking her out with nanny horses a couple of times a week. Very slow as she is still growing, but needs to do something as getting bored. All ground work is fine. She would go up occasionally during initial training...probably 5 times in total, never more than 3 ft off the ground and as a babyish reaction to something. Example being, she pulled towards the gate long reining and my inexperienced friend shooed her away waving her arms in the air...Molly got scared, didn't run, just went up, turned and looked at me all scared. All 5ish times have been similar fear and only in the first three weeks i had her. By mid March, it stopped, she hasn't put a foot wrong.
Last Wednesday, myself and two friends stood, mounted in the wide driveway of our yard, while the third friend locked the gate and got on. Lead horse, next to me and Molly didn't want to walk on as was more interested in friend mounting horse behind her after locking gate. Lead rider smacked lead horse with a hand shaped crop so made a really loud noise and...at the exact same time, the horse that was being mounted bit Molly on the rump, so hard it cut her. Molly spooked out into the road...no problem as we already knew the road was clear for a good long way. There was a car about 400yds away. Car stopped, I thanked them, asked Molly to turn and go back into driveway. She was almost back to driveway and stopped. Lead rider was being very apologetic for the noise, but I told her not to be silly and please just stand still while I walk Molly back in. Mollynstarted tonwalk again when lead horse swung bum around towards her...not intentionally, she was just fidgeting, but it was enough to make Molly go straight up. She did try to step back and save herself a couple of times, but was teetering long enough that I was thinking what a beautiful colour she was as I sent my hands around her neck to not pull her back. Unfortunately, she is a baby, she isn't well muscled or well balanced and she couldn't right herself. As soon as I realised my weight was going backwards, I pulled my arms out to the side to let myself fall and not have my weight pull her over the edge. This meant I had time during the fall to sort myself out. I instinctively curled into a ball but before I hit the road, I saw Molly falling backwards. I put my right leg down and shifted myself backwards as much as I could as she was coming to land on my head/chest. Next I realised she was coming straight, so thought about her withers, neck and head and I pulled the right rein quite hard, but i remember even then thinking not to yank it, lol. Anyway, this pulled her to her side, so I just curled up with my right side to the floor, in the recovery position. I believe I was on my right side as I pulled her to the right. I had been happy that landing didn't hurt too much, but just watched as she came down on my lower back, left hip and legs. She mercifully got straight up, hardly touching the road herself...her own feet were not even on the ground when she landed on me, i could see them all pointing towards the horses in the driveway, when I also Noticed lead rider (extremely good friend) was already off her horse and stood waiting for Molly to get up. Molly didn't catch me with her feet at all and I watched her wander off down the road spooked, but sound and soon caught by one of the other riders.
Now...I do not believe she meant to go over. I do believe she tried to save herself. She is completely sound. She was apparently a bit jumpy Wednesday and Thursday, but was fine with me when I went to see her and Fly on Friday.
I just read an old thread on here about this subject and it was very sobering. Despite my disbelief at how poorly I have been diagnosed and the total lack of advice from Drs...I consider myself to be extremely lucky not to be paralysed or dead. I have no concerns about riding again and TBH, no concerns about getting on Molly again, but...given that I have nobody close to me that is experienced with youngsters, I am hesitant to do more with her alone. I want someone with me, take her back to the recent beginning and have someone clued up there just in case she shows signs of planting again. She did plant for a minute before taking that step and then rearing when lead horse moved, so the plant may be a signal of her being overwhelmed.
So...given that I won't be riding for a bit (I guess the Drs will advise me at some point)...do you lot think I should send her for training to a local and extremely good and sensitive trainer. I will always be open and honest with anyone when it comes to safety, so they would know what happened, but I hate knowing that It won't be me doing that work.
WWYD? Take the training option and get on her in a few months probably but know I will have to undo some stuff that I may not like, or turn her away, wait and do it all myself, just much more slowly?
Thanks for reading such a long post...I WILL actually make and send out special cupcakes to anyone who wants...just PM where I need to send them...
Some of you will know that last Wednesday morning, my 4yr old WBxTB mare reared on the road, went over backwards and landed on me. I have broken my pelvis, T12 and as I found out today, possibly L1 and L2 as well. Also two small fractures in my foot.
I am extremely lucky. Despite being sent home from hospital with no pain killers, apparently no broken bones and f all advice, I am actually quite mobile. I am totally pain and discomfort free 98% of the time. Just feels like Molly is still on me doing a dance off for the occasional few seconds it does hurt. Still no advice from doctors, got to speak to them tomorrow, so...all in all, I am very lucky to be walking. I can move around fairly easily, just slowly. Been helping with the girls (Fly amd Molly), but not lifting or doing anything strenuous.
My difficulty is in figuring out what tondo now. Molly has been fantastic through the whole working/backing experience. I have backed and started literally hundreds of horses and ponies, so am well experienced and it has all been done very slowly and she has been happy with everything. She's been more than happy...since the first time I got on, I can stand her by any mounting block, stone, bench etc...and she will stand perfectly with zero contact on the mouth while i get on and will wait as long as I want, not walking until I ask. She has not cantered yet as I have been mainly hacking her out with nanny horses a couple of times a week. Very slow as she is still growing, but needs to do something as getting bored. All ground work is fine. She would go up occasionally during initial training...probably 5 times in total, never more than 3 ft off the ground and as a babyish reaction to something. Example being, she pulled towards the gate long reining and my inexperienced friend shooed her away waving her arms in the air...Molly got scared, didn't run, just went up, turned and looked at me all scared. All 5ish times have been similar fear and only in the first three weeks i had her. By mid March, it stopped, she hasn't put a foot wrong.
Last Wednesday, myself and two friends stood, mounted in the wide driveway of our yard, while the third friend locked the gate and got on. Lead horse, next to me and Molly didn't want to walk on as was more interested in friend mounting horse behind her after locking gate. Lead rider smacked lead horse with a hand shaped crop so made a really loud noise and...at the exact same time, the horse that was being mounted bit Molly on the rump, so hard it cut her. Molly spooked out into the road...no problem as we already knew the road was clear for a good long way. There was a car about 400yds away. Car stopped, I thanked them, asked Molly to turn and go back into driveway. She was almost back to driveway and stopped. Lead rider was being very apologetic for the noise, but I told her not to be silly and please just stand still while I walk Molly back in. Mollynstarted tonwalk again when lead horse swung bum around towards her...not intentionally, she was just fidgeting, but it was enough to make Molly go straight up. She did try to step back and save herself a couple of times, but was teetering long enough that I was thinking what a beautiful colour she was as I sent my hands around her neck to not pull her back. Unfortunately, she is a baby, she isn't well muscled or well balanced and she couldn't right herself. As soon as I realised my weight was going backwards, I pulled my arms out to the side to let myself fall and not have my weight pull her over the edge. This meant I had time during the fall to sort myself out. I instinctively curled into a ball but before I hit the road, I saw Molly falling backwards. I put my right leg down and shifted myself backwards as much as I could as she was coming to land on my head/chest. Next I realised she was coming straight, so thought about her withers, neck and head and I pulled the right rein quite hard, but i remember even then thinking not to yank it, lol. Anyway, this pulled her to her side, so I just curled up with my right side to the floor, in the recovery position. I believe I was on my right side as I pulled her to the right. I had been happy that landing didn't hurt too much, but just watched as she came down on my lower back, left hip and legs. She mercifully got straight up, hardly touching the road herself...her own feet were not even on the ground when she landed on me, i could see them all pointing towards the horses in the driveway, when I also Noticed lead rider (extremely good friend) was already off her horse and stood waiting for Molly to get up. Molly didn't catch me with her feet at all and I watched her wander off down the road spooked, but sound and soon caught by one of the other riders.
Now...I do not believe she meant to go over. I do believe she tried to save herself. She is completely sound. She was apparently a bit jumpy Wednesday and Thursday, but was fine with me when I went to see her and Fly on Friday.
I just read an old thread on here about this subject and it was very sobering. Despite my disbelief at how poorly I have been diagnosed and the total lack of advice from Drs...I consider myself to be extremely lucky not to be paralysed or dead. I have no concerns about riding again and TBH, no concerns about getting on Molly again, but...given that I have nobody close to me that is experienced with youngsters, I am hesitant to do more with her alone. I want someone with me, take her back to the recent beginning and have someone clued up there just in case she shows signs of planting again. She did plant for a minute before taking that step and then rearing when lead horse moved, so the plant may be a signal of her being overwhelmed.
So...given that I won't be riding for a bit (I guess the Drs will advise me at some point)...do you lot think I should send her for training to a local and extremely good and sensitive trainer. I will always be open and honest with anyone when it comes to safety, so they would know what happened, but I hate knowing that It won't be me doing that work.
WWYD? Take the training option and get on her in a few months probably but know I will have to undo some stuff that I may not like, or turn her away, wait and do it all myself, just much more slowly?
Thanks for reading such a long post...I WILL actually make and send out special cupcakes to anyone who wants...just PM where I need to send them...
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