Suechoccy
Well-Known Member
You have been through a very traumatic incident OP and you need to put yourself first now. I'm sure Molly will cope if she is turned away for a few months or sent to a sensitive trainer. You've probably got a few 'what ifs' flying through your thoughts at the moment and you must give yourself time to deal with these as you heal. Agree with Terry, some horses seem naturally to evade or react to fear by rearing just as others will plant or buck or bolt. I don't think any horse plans to go over backwards but it's probably one of the worst scenarios when it does happen. Molly sounds as though she is very well looked after so concentrate on yourself now and get well![]()
absolutely echo what doriangrey says.
Whether 4yo Molly is turned away to mature more or ridden regularly onwards at this point in her life for some time first, it will make no appreciable difference. She is a horse and that's that. Either option will work so don't spend too much time worrying what's best for her. Either will work. Focus on your recovery and take it easy even when you feel well, it'll take you a couple of weeks to work the shock fully out of your system, and then however long it takes for the broken bones to knit. Get yourself 100pc. Try not to dwell on the injuries or the "what ifs" and try not to over-analyse what happened. it was one of those situations where many little things culminated into one big thing - what I call a "clusterfXXX" situation - one little goes wrong, then another, then another, then BANG. The important and good thing is that all the "what ifs" didn't happen and so you're going to be absolutely okay in time so look forwards in life and enjoy your life. Very best wishes to you. I prescribe sunshine and chocolate to aid recovery too.