riding_high
Well-Known Member
i've never felt i had to choose, i've got 3 kids (only one is sort of interested in horses) and i've had horses through each pregnancy, in fact my OH bought me my horse during my last pregnancy as i was going round the twist having nothing to do during the day!
i was lucky in that my OH is happy to help with the horses or look after the kids while i do the horses, it does make things alot easier. i don't have family around me and my in laws are very much against horses so it is just myself and my OH.
there are times i wished i waited to have kids as it would be nice to just go for a hack without thinking about anything other than myself and horse BUT i think i will always have them moments. i never really wanted kids, i felt it was expected of me to have them, now i've got them i wouldn't change them for the world (maybe less arguing!) they love my horses and will help me out when they are at the yard, such as filling a haynet, doing the waters, mixing feeds which means i can crack on with the harder jobs.
don't feel pressured to have kids but if you want them then just go for it, they will only change your life, cost you loads if you let them, exactly the same as a horse.![Wink ;) ;)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
i was lucky in that my OH is happy to help with the horses or look after the kids while i do the horses, it does make things alot easier. i don't have family around me and my in laws are very much against horses so it is just myself and my OH.
there are times i wished i waited to have kids as it would be nice to just go for a hack without thinking about anything other than myself and horse BUT i think i will always have them moments. i never really wanted kids, i felt it was expected of me to have them, now i've got them i wouldn't change them for the world (maybe less arguing!) they love my horses and will help me out when they are at the yard, such as filling a haynet, doing the waters, mixing feeds which means i can crack on with the harder jobs.
don't feel pressured to have kids but if you want them then just go for it, they will only change your life, cost you loads if you let them, exactly the same as a horse.