daydreamer
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I have, however, backtracked a little.......
Everyone else's youngsters seem to be making far more progress. *sigh*
I'm feeling exactly the same. I felt like I was making good progress but have been waiting for a saddle to be made and delivered since early May. My instructor said to crack on with lunging/long-reining to work on fitness but that hasn't quite gone to plan as I tried to long-rein a short route by myself (walked in hand lots of times and long-reined with a leader a few times) and we had a napping/reversing/squealing issue. I lost confidence in myself and Duncan lost confidence in being long-reined. We also had spring-like weather and I think the sugar in the grass blew his brains a bit as he became spooky even walking in hand which put me off doing much lunging or long-reining in case it went badly. I'm also always by myself unless I ask friends to come and help which I'm rubbish at doing.
I'm trying to look at the positives - he has remained very good to tie up/groom, waited very patiently at an unfamiliar yard for his field mate to have his sheath cleaned and has been better walking in hand recently.
Yesterday I went back to basics and worked through lunge>add extra line from roller around back>extra line to bit, roller, then around back>both lines from bit to roller and work on a circle. On his good rein I got all the way through the process and he was very good. On his trickier rein I did the first two steps but felt he had done enough so stopped.
I'm trying not to compare myself to all the posts I see about youngsters progressing but it is very tricky! I'm also trying not to worry about exactly how the ridden work is going to progress as I'm going to have to ask people (that I don't really know) from the yard to nanny us out hacking and the yard have just opened the hacking to the public and we seem to be flooded with visitors after it being very quiet for the 3 years when I haven't been using it!