Pearlsasinger
Up in the clouds
I have two legs, two arms & a pair of running shoes but there is no way I'm going to be a Usain Bolt. It's the same with horses, some are sharp, quick & on many occasions a real handful, some people like them like that. Others are 'steady eddies' & they look after you and go at their own pace, some people prefer these. We have a horse that has a magnificent jump but he's never going to be the fastest horse in the arena. Fortunately he can turn on a sixpence & jump of nothing so what he lacks in speed he makes up for in suppleness £ his turning ability so he is normally in the rosettes.
You can rarely turn a horse from one extreme to another. You may need to reconsider your position with your horse & is he the right one for you. Good Luck.
Exactly!
TBH I feel quite sorry for this horse who is obviously in the wrong home but would be much appreciated in the right one!