TarrSteps
Well-Known Member
Star, I can understand why you feel the need to defend yourself but, in my opinion (for what that is worth
) you have no reason to do so. You were as prepared as anyone - likely more so - and have done well at the level above your class. What more can anyone ask? I think, in your case, the circumstances were very much not in your favor that day. Perhaps there are things you can do to narrow those margins a bit but that was not to be expected and you did all you and your connections - who are hardly without top class knowledge - could think of. As, I'm sure, did most of the 4* riders.
People seem to forget there is an element of luck in eventing. It is true that the harder you work, the luckier you get. But you work as hard as you can and do all you can do to narrow those margins, not eliminate them. Anyone who pretends it's not a potentially dangerous sport is delusional. And some of that danger comes because you can do everything right and still have it go wrong.
Don't get me wrong, I'm probably what many people on here would consider an over preparer. I believe you should do EVERYTHING you can to educate and prepare. But I've been in horses a loooong time and I would be kidding myself if I thought I had so much control I could make it all about me, all the time.
So don't listen to the people who imply you didn't do your best. It may me that, on the day, that wasn't exactly what was needed but it's also possible it just wasn't your day. Live and learn. What do they say, it's not how you fall it's how you pick yourself back up. Onward and upward.
People seem to forget there is an element of luck in eventing. It is true that the harder you work, the luckier you get. But you work as hard as you can and do all you can do to narrow those margins, not eliminate them. Anyone who pretends it's not a potentially dangerous sport is delusional. And some of that danger comes because you can do everything right and still have it go wrong.
Don't get me wrong, I'm probably what many people on here would consider an over preparer. I believe you should do EVERYTHING you can to educate and prepare. But I've been in horses a loooong time and I would be kidding myself if I thought I had so much control I could make it all about me, all the time.
So don't listen to the people who imply you didn't do your best. It may me that, on the day, that wasn't exactly what was needed but it's also possible it just wasn't your day. Live and learn. What do they say, it's not how you fall it's how you pick yourself back up. Onward and upward.