CluelessShowjumper
Active Member
Aside: If anyone from this yard is reading this, please do as you did last time and screenshot and send to the owner, as I know I am in the right and beyond caring.
I have my one horse on loan and left the yard with my other horse as I moved. As soon as I left, the YO started doing really weird stuff with my horse, like adding things to his feed (after previously being asked repeatedly not to), moving him randomly out of the herd and then back again, and telling my loaner about everything I was selling on FB and then asking her if she would rather loan one of his horses.
Anyway, I got a call to say horse was broken, so I hop in the car and drive 2 hours to see broken horse. Horse is a bit of a drama queen and even a minor scrape is the end of the world. It was mid day and I advised the loaner to wait and see if he was still just as broken the next day before calling vet out (as many horse owners do). Turns out was just an abscess but he did not present with any heat etc or digital pulse.
Whilst I was there she informed me he had been vaccinated the day before but my other horses (had forgot to collect it), passport had been signed. I knew NOTHING about this. I had not organised it, not authorised it and not been told it was happening, further more, none of the horses had been due to be vaccinated as they had been done 2 months prior. Fast forward to the next day...vet said she was advised to vaccine the other horse and so had vaccinated the wrong horse and signed the other ones passport (I cannot make this up). I posted on BSJA asking for advice on the situation. Someone screen shotted it (literally almost to the word what I have written here), and sent it to the YO. YO sent me the most diabolical email accusing me of XYZ, horse abuse, cruelty because I did not call the vet immediately, told me he had discussed my horses with other liveries and some other things, and banned me from the yard that my horse is on.
I responded to the email, ignoring the tirade of nastiness and asked YO how they propose I go about collecting my horse or seeing my horse (loaner has to give me access at all times and we are actually friends). YO ignores the email and forwards it onto the loaner asking her if she is aware, she tells him that he is my horse and I can do what I want with him. I am still ignored and banned.
I have also found out that he bad mouthed me all over the group chat and told them all I was banned and not to let me on the yard to see/move my horse.
Loaner has given notice and is moving him, but we wanted to get him out of there sooner.
I never had a bad relationship with the YO, in fact I did numerous favors and jobs for them. Unpaid for the last 10 days (so they haven't paid me for work done but at this stage i don't even care). I left on good terms, before the month was up, fully paid up and cleaned out.
Anyone been through this? What do you suggest/can I just walk on and get the horse (I know it's private property but he is my property).
I have my one horse on loan and left the yard with my other horse as I moved. As soon as I left, the YO started doing really weird stuff with my horse, like adding things to his feed (after previously being asked repeatedly not to), moving him randomly out of the herd and then back again, and telling my loaner about everything I was selling on FB and then asking her if she would rather loan one of his horses.
Anyway, I got a call to say horse was broken, so I hop in the car and drive 2 hours to see broken horse. Horse is a bit of a drama queen and even a minor scrape is the end of the world. It was mid day and I advised the loaner to wait and see if he was still just as broken the next day before calling vet out (as many horse owners do). Turns out was just an abscess but he did not present with any heat etc or digital pulse.
Whilst I was there she informed me he had been vaccinated the day before but my other horses (had forgot to collect it), passport had been signed. I knew NOTHING about this. I had not organised it, not authorised it and not been told it was happening, further more, none of the horses had been due to be vaccinated as they had been done 2 months prior. Fast forward to the next day...vet said she was advised to vaccine the other horse and so had vaccinated the wrong horse and signed the other ones passport (I cannot make this up). I posted on BSJA asking for advice on the situation. Someone screen shotted it (literally almost to the word what I have written here), and sent it to the YO. YO sent me the most diabolical email accusing me of XYZ, horse abuse, cruelty because I did not call the vet immediately, told me he had discussed my horses with other liveries and some other things, and banned me from the yard that my horse is on.
I responded to the email, ignoring the tirade of nastiness and asked YO how they propose I go about collecting my horse or seeing my horse (loaner has to give me access at all times and we are actually friends). YO ignores the email and forwards it onto the loaner asking her if she is aware, she tells him that he is my horse and I can do what I want with him. I am still ignored and banned.
I have also found out that he bad mouthed me all over the group chat and told them all I was banned and not to let me on the yard to see/move my horse.
Loaner has given notice and is moving him, but we wanted to get him out of there sooner.
I never had a bad relationship with the YO, in fact I did numerous favors and jobs for them. Unpaid for the last 10 days (so they haven't paid me for work done but at this stage i don't even care). I left on good terms, before the month was up, fully paid up and cleaned out.
Anyone been through this? What do you suggest/can I just walk on and get the horse (I know it's private property but he is my property).