Boggle- USA bound!

I know quite a few international couples. Many opted for 2 "weddings", one in each country. Obviously only one involved any paperwork, the other was just a celebratory party for the other side of the family and friends.

Yeah, we have thought about that. But, if our wedding is only 10 people then that's cool. If it's 60 that's cool too. I think I just like the idea of one event, one day and as long as our absolute closest (parents, siblings) can be there, anything else is a bonus.

I'd also like to provide accomodation for as many people as possible. I just envisage a big villa with great food and wine and aperol spritz.
 
Ha! Well I can say one things for sure, I will not be spending 6 figures on a wedding. Nor will I be wearing a big white dress.

We are kind of hoping to get married in Italy as it's a place that we love. It's tricky because we have people in the USA, Mexico, Europe, UK.... so not convenient for anyone wherever we do it.

But there will be no Bridzilla here haha, truly just want the most relaxed and not overly curated wedding I can create.

We got married in Italy precisely because we had friends and family in so many different countries. We felt it was easier for us to pick somewhere neutral and we figured there is no one in the world who wouldn't like a holiday in Italy.

We found a villa we could rent for a whole week for the same price as one day at a UK venue. We thought we would have about 20 guests. We had 60 🤣

We did a week's worth of hanging out at the pool, walking in the vineyards and olive groves, eating pizza, pasta, porchetta, bruschetta, panzanella, cheeses, meats, olives and drinking aaaallll the wine. Guests went off and did their own thing as and when, and we had the wedding towards end of the week to allow a day or two for hangovers.

People still talk about how much fun our wedding was.
 
We got married in Italy precisely because we had friends and family in so many different countries. We felt it was easier for us to pick somewhere neutral and we figured there is no one in the world who wouldn't like a holiday in Italy.

We found a villa we could rent for a whole week for the same price as one day at a UK venue. We thought we would have about 20 guests. We had 60 🤣

We did a week's worth of hanging out at the pool, walking in the vineyards and olive groves, eating pizza, pasta, porchetta, bruschetta, panzanella, cheeses, meats, olives and drinking aaaallll the wine. Guests went off and did their own thing as and when, and we had the wedding towards end of the week to allow a day or two for hangovers.

People still talk about how much fun our wedding was.

Ha! Exactly what we are after. I'm finding it tricky to find somewhere you can legalling get married on site though, but maybe that's something we will have to flex on.
 
Ha! Well I can say one things for sure, I will not be spending 6 figures on a wedding. Nor will I be wearing a big white dress.

We are kind of hoping to get married in Italy as it's a place that we love. It's tricky because we have people in the USA, Mexico, Europe, UK.... so not convenient for anyone wherever we do it.

But there will be no Bridzilla here haha, truly just want the most relaxed and not overly curated wedding I can create.

I do not blame you! I think Villa Corra in Florence does weddings... Only know as I looked at it for a possible holiday hotel base a few months ago.
 
Ha! Exactly what we are after. I'm finding it tricky to find somewhere you can legalling get married on site though, but maybe that's something we will have to flex on.

We did all the planning, booked the appointment in Rome, got the right kind of officiant sorted out, got our lawyers to speak to Italian lawyers, literally everything. Only for them to ask for my husband's birth certificate about three weeks before the wedding, which of course he didn't have and the South African wait times were up to three years with the official reason given as "due to inefficiency".

So guess who had to book emergency flights to South Africa mere weeks before we had 60 guests arriving in Italy so that we could get legally married there before the celebration 🤣 no one could tell though, because we still signed a declaration, affirming everything that we had legally done two weeks prior with me wearing a white dress that I bought from the Mango in terminal five.
 
We did all the planning, booked the appointment in Rome, got the right kind of officiant sorted out, got our lawyers to speak to Italian lawyers, literally everything. Only for them to ask for my husband's birth certificate about three weeks before the wedding, which of course he didn't have and the South African wait times were up to three years with the official reason given as "due to inefficiency".

So guess who had to book emergency flights to South Africa mere weeks before we had 60 guests arriving in Italy so that we could get legally married there before the celebration 🤣 no one could tell though, because we still signed a declaration, affirming everything that we had legally done two weeks prior with me wearing a white dress that I bought from the Mango in terminal five.

Ha that sounds like the level of chaos that will likely surround me in this too! OH has a USA, French and Mexican passport and me just a British one, I'm not sure how much or how little that will all complicate things but I'm sure we are about to find out :)
 
Wishing you both all the happiness in this new chapter in your adventures! Horse updates or not, I am sure you will find the life you make rich and full of challenges and rewards. x
 
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