Supertrooper
Well-Known Member
Couldn’t agree with this more tbhIf CDJ had done, said or written anything to suggest she felt true remorse and could see how she had gone down a very wrong path I would be the first to support her new way of doing things and accept that she was misguided in her earlier actions because of the influence of others in the industry, how judging inadvertently rewarded how she had been doing things, and because I accept we are all human and can get it so very wrong sometimes. Especially when others praise ways that shouldn't be praised.
But I've seen no evidence of any of that, just a statement which was clearly incorrect in places as it was clearly not a one-off thing, a year away from competitions and back to it. I would like to see her recent tests though, as there is a little glimmer of hope that perhaps the results she is getting and aiming for now are softer. But in all honesty that is more wishing to give the benefit of the doubt rather than actual hope.
On the other hand, Olivia Towers for example has been quite open about realising she was on a path she didn't like with her horses, and has also been open about what she has done to basically have a complete overhaul of how she works with her horses. I have only admiration for that, and she offers good influence in my opinion. If anyone kept dragging up how she used to do things then in that instance it would be completely wrong, and I would support posts which called out any unpleasantness towards her for the past.
But I cannot (yet) support posts which blindly insist that people should 'Be kind' just for the sake of it. Nobody's being unpleasant for the sake of it, nor inciting others to be horrid to CDJ, but we are expressing our regret that after the IMMENSE shockwaves it sent through our community at the time, the potential for change looks to have been lost, and that makes it so much harder to hope there will be significant improvement to the lives of all top level dressage horses any time soon. And we have every right to express our concern for the wellbeing of horses - louder and harder as long as nothing is changing.