Goldenstar
Well-Known Member
I think there are two types of posts that are generally easy to tell apart:
either posts that ask for CC, when it is perfectly acceptable to mention areas for improvement, but any normal human being would present these in a kind and helpful manner, rather than be blunt and hurtful just because it is supposed to be criticism
or posts that ask for admiration
If a post says things like "Look at how gorgeous my boy is!" or "He has improved so much he is fantastic to ride" you know it's of the second kind. Nothing wrong with this kind of post and there are plenty of people around who are happy to take the time to concur.
I may have got it wrong in the past but this is how I approach it now .