Dont want to be clingy. but........ sold him ............ and...

Is it the end now? End of subject?
A lady who seems at the end of her tether was trying to get someone onside, said a wrong term in the fuddle she was in (as we can all see what colour each other is on a forum, can't we?) No way was she being racist. Who at? It's ridiculous how childish people report others at times. It was hardly racist bullying, how can anyone be offended having read all of her messages and seeing how she was tying herself in knots over what she was saying and feeling?
She's now been banned so her self-loathing for parting with her boy will feel so much worse. I don't know her, haven't been on here in a few months but I think whoever reported her is cruel and it was pointless. I think the button pusher must have issues regarding themselves too.
 
Fwiw I've heard older people use the term 'nig-nogging' as a slang for niggling. So I read the comment differently to other people it seems. That, and the OP apologised when someone drew her attention to it (too late to edit).
 
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MUDMUDGLORIOUSMUD, So how could any of us help her? we are all based round the UK? Tell us how and I should imagin most of us will do are best to help.
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I really don't know to be honest..... if someone 'on the outside' knows her...or knows someone who does, then a knock on her door and a come on, lets have a cuppa will go a long way.
Someone to sob on is sometimes the only thing you want, or can handle xxx
 
Patterdale said:
Fwiw I've heard older people use the term 'nig-nogging' as a slang for niggling. So I read the comment differently to other people it seems. That, and the OP apologised when someone drew her attention to it (too late to edit).
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This.

Can't say I know what's going on, but the OP seems deeply unhappy :(
 
It's quite possible that the only person/people she has to talk to are the people on here.
I'm sure she said that the yard couldn't/wouldn't help with the horse, she possibly doesn't have family, and to have to give up a beloved animal and horses full stop because of an illness or an injury, with no-one to turn to can be traumatic. Like a bereavement in a way.

I'm useless on computers, but I'm sure someone could dig around and find a general location for her - Argyll is a start.

I don't think this person needs berating, or vilification, I think they need help :(
 
Could HHO help us if we say we concerned? Also as Mud said we don't know her whole situation maybe selling her horse was the tip of the iceberg for her and its pushed her right over the edge. MrsD123 if you can see this pls pm me I'm happy to listen and not judge as I'm currently getting over a break down and a hard time. Here to help
 
Yes HHO will have her email address. All that needs to happen is for some to email admin - asking them to pass on their email details to MrsD.

I can't see them refusing under the circumstances.
 
MadBlackLab said:
Could HHO help us if we say we concerned? Also as Mud said we don't know her whole situation maybe selling her horse was the tip of the iceberg for her and its pushed her right over the edge. MrsD123 if you can see this pls pm me I'm happy to listen and not judge as I'm currently getting over a break down and a hard time. Here to help
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You are very kind :)
 
I can't email them - or rather, they won't accept PM's..... technologically stumped!

If we could trace OP, then we could ask the open forum if anyone is close.... or send someone official to her possibly? I'm in the Midlands, but have friends in Scotland that may be able to help.

That said, it could all be a rouse, but I don't want to risk it....
 
I'm so sad that MrsD has been banned. The person who reported her should be ashamed. It was quite apparent that she was distressed and not thinking clearly. Parts of this thread have been more cruel than I have ever known HHO to be.

This is really upsetting.

Best wishes MrsD. I'm sure your boy is fine and I hope you hear good news about his new life soon. x
 
Maybe admin would consider reversing the ban and emailing MrsD to that effect?

This isnt the first time someone in a bad way emotionally has been banned and i feel there are always other options than a sudden ban

It would be a real shame if no good came of this
 
I have a friend who has family in Dunoon. If anyone can find out details my friend knows some of the horsey community there. I feel for this poor lady her grief is very apparent and I genuinely believe she meant no wrong. She has not been racist she may well of said a word deemed to be racist but its clear by her post there was no racism meant. Mental health issues and grief are horrific I really feel for her. I hope someone can reach out to her.
 
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