Feeling tired, one thing after another..

[Jayzee]

So sorry to read this, it is such a difficult decision. You have at least some conclusions x

 

[EllenJay]

So sorry - but the right decision. Will be thinking of you xx

 

[Red-1]

Gosh, I missed this thread, I am so sorry you are both travelling this path. If it helps, I had difficulty with two of mine who were PTS at the right time, but when they both looked fabulous. I consoled myself that I would rather they were PTS whilst looking fabulous than when looking awful. I would not have forgiven myself if they had to wait until they looked awful. Sometimes PTS is the greatest kindness. X

 

[SEL]

Sometimes no matter how hard we try, how much we spend or how much we wish for success - we just can't make them well. It's desperately sad and i really feel for you. **hugs**

 

[ycbm]

ASBMO I am so sorry, I know how much you love Jacob, and you are very brave to make the right decision for him.
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[Nudibranch]

Sorry to hear but I think you've made the right choice. I had a big, beautiful 7yo pts and while I constantly questioned myself I knew it was the only option. You will have a sense of relief eventually - the constant worry and second guessing has come to an end and you can rest knowing they're not in pain.

 

[littleshetland]

So sorry for you but it does sound like the right decision....wishing you the very best.

 

[Roxylola]

So sorry to see your update, its a terrible burden to bear

 

[Caol Ila]

So sorry to read this. I feel like I am getting closer with my old girl. It's such a hard decision to make when they are looking reasonably alright, but you know they're not.

 

[Baroque]

How fortunate Jacob is to have found his way to you. I'm in awe of your determination to get to the bottom of his problems and now your determination that he won't go on in pain. Would that all horses were as fortunate as him.

 

[TPO]

Jacob is so lucky to have you and that you are sp selflessly putting him first.

My heart breaks for you, I hope that you can take some comfort knowing that you are able to do this final kindness for him.

Thinking of you and if I can do anything to help in any way just say the word x

 

[AShetlandBitMeOnce]

This forum really is incredible, you are all being so kind and every message is going a long way to alleviate the inevitable worry of ‘have I done enough’. I can’t thank you all more.
Hopefully with an early night I can somehow find the ability to hold it together for work tomorrow.

 

[Zuzan]

Wow .. soo sorry.. Jacob is very lucky to have a human like you ASBMO .. a very courageous decision

 

[ozpoz]

So sad for you. He is lucky to have you there to put his welfare first, however hard it is on you. X

 

[Spottyappy]

So sorry to read this.
He sounds dry lucky you are in his life, with his well-being the main consideration.
Thinking of you.

 

[TinseLeneHorse]

Sometimes no matter how hard we try, how much we spend or how much we wish for success - we just can't make them well. It's desperately sad and i really feel for you. **hugs**

Such wise words.
Thinking of you A Shetland, you sound like a lovely caring owner and this must be devastating for you.

 

[Trouper]

You have absolutely made the right decision and it takes a brave and compassionate person to do that. Hope it all goes smoothly.

 

[Tarragon]

Oh, what a sad update - but I am sure that your decision is the right one to make, but gosh, such a hard one!
Thinking of you xx

 

[Spotherisk]

I’m so sorry. I had my 10 year old put down last winter through various chronic problems, many of which were niggling. My vet was fab and very honest, and it sounds as if yours is too. Wishing you strength and kindness.

 

[holeymoley]

So sorry to hear xx

 

[Pearlsacarolsinger]

I am so sorry to see your update. This is the problem with big horses, they are just too heavy for their own bodies, I speak from experience, having lost a 6yr old and 2 x 11 yr olds . You have done all that is feasible for him and made the only decision possible.

 

[cauda equina]

So sorry xx

 

[mrmac]

I’m so sorry to hear this. It is never easy making that decision when they look so well in themselves. If only love could fix them. Thinking of you and sending much love and strength for the future xxxx

 

[Hannahgb]

I am so sorry. I have just gone through very similar and lost my boy last week. Always happy to chat if you need it xx

 

[SatansLittleHelper]

So very sorry you've had to make that decision ? It's clear you've put his welfare first, despite how hard it is. I hope in time you will stop beating yourself up over it, massive hugs xx

 

[quiteniceforacob]

Sending you big hugs - I’m so sorry but as already said, you are doing him a service by putting him first xx

 

[Lucky Snowball]

So sorry x

 

[Squeak]

So sorry to hear this. How heartbreaking but it sounds like the right decision.

 

[AShetlandBitMeOnce]

Thank you everyone, he went quickly and painlessly, with a mouthful of grass on Tuesday at 2pm. I can't write much more as I'll end up in tears at my desk; but just know I'm grateful to you all for such kind words. x

 

[Tarragon]

Thinking of you xxxx