orange gal
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Hi everyone,
I bought a happy hack from a breeder, and it turns out she wasn't as advertised, or just has settled in very poorly. She was a total sweetie when I met her, but she reared me off at home and reared up several times further on the ground, as well as some biting and kicking (I am a very gentle rider, not at all aggressive, although maybe she would do better with someone firmer!) It has clearly been a silly mistake of mine to buy her as I didn't do enough homework. However, the breeder has been good about it and offered some solutions, and when these didn't work, I asked for a return, as I am legally protected (feels awful talking about returning a horse like shes a pair of shoes...).
So they agreed, but due to them having real financial difficulties and being somewhat of a family breeder I suggested they could sell her on before returning my money, as they had already spent it on bills. She is scheduled to leave here on the 27th, should I write up a letter or contract to be scanned and signed by both parties? I don't want the horse and the money disappearing! Is there anyone with experience with a situation like this? What did you do?
And yes I was stupid to not do more homework, I am angry at myself for letting my heart get in the way, as this was a special purchase for me and my mum to share, and the horse we've dreamt about (or so we thought) for years). You don't need to tell me I'm an idiot-I already know!
I bought a happy hack from a breeder, and it turns out she wasn't as advertised, or just has settled in very poorly. She was a total sweetie when I met her, but she reared me off at home and reared up several times further on the ground, as well as some biting and kicking (I am a very gentle rider, not at all aggressive, although maybe she would do better with someone firmer!) It has clearly been a silly mistake of mine to buy her as I didn't do enough homework. However, the breeder has been good about it and offered some solutions, and when these didn't work, I asked for a return, as I am legally protected (feels awful talking about returning a horse like shes a pair of shoes...).
So they agreed, but due to them having real financial difficulties and being somewhat of a family breeder I suggested they could sell her on before returning my money, as they had already spent it on bills. She is scheduled to leave here on the 27th, should I write up a letter or contract to be scanned and signed by both parties? I don't want the horse and the money disappearing! Is there anyone with experience with a situation like this? What did you do?
And yes I was stupid to not do more homework, I am angry at myself for letting my heart get in the way, as this was a special purchase for me and my mum to share, and the horse we've dreamt about (or so we thought) for years). You don't need to tell me I'm an idiot-I already know!