JavaJaneW
Well-Known Member
No idea how to answer the OP, but having lost two horses I wanted to add my bit.
My plan for Eric was to have him loaded and taken away so I wouldn't witness the end, however, he decided that he wanted to stay put and for the first time in his life, wouldn't load. He was shot in the street before he became even more distressed.
Phantom, suddenly very ill in a day, waited for rachel to come home, loaded well (he was going to be stabled) but died in the lorry after collapsing, with her beside him. (which was convenient really)
Afterwards, she saw him and recognised that he was just a body and not her pony and it was easier.I don't think about what happens after, the bodies are disposed of in whatever way the knacker man does it.
They are just that, bodies. I wouldn't have considered cremation and ashes ( I heard a story about someone doing that and ending up with not just her horse), we can remember them as they were, have a piece of tail and can think about them whenever, don't need a memorial to do that, the memories are all in the heart.
That makes me sound really hard, but truthfully (and today is the one year date of losing Phantom) I was truly distraught and for days and weeks not a day went without a tear, and even now they can fall.
Totally pointless post really, in an otherwise interesting thread.
My plan for Eric was to have him loaded and taken away so I wouldn't witness the end, however, he decided that he wanted to stay put and for the first time in his life, wouldn't load. He was shot in the street before he became even more distressed.
Phantom, suddenly very ill in a day, waited for rachel to come home, loaded well (he was going to be stabled) but died in the lorry after collapsing, with her beside him. (which was convenient really)
Afterwards, she saw him and recognised that he was just a body and not her pony and it was easier.I don't think about what happens after, the bodies are disposed of in whatever way the knacker man does it.
They are just that, bodies. I wouldn't have considered cremation and ashes ( I heard a story about someone doing that and ending up with not just her horse), we can remember them as they were, have a piece of tail and can think about them whenever, don't need a memorial to do that, the memories are all in the heart.
That makes me sound really hard, but truthfully (and today is the one year date of losing Phantom) I was truly distraught and for days and weeks not a day went without a tear, and even now they can fall.
Totally pointless post really, in an otherwise interesting thread.