milliepops
Wears headscarf aggressively
I didn't say it was, did I?
On your second point - I didn't say that either.
OK in that case I'd ask for you to explain the sentence below a bit better because I'm not trying to be obtuse, that's exactly how it comes across?
I said you either sign up for the competitive sport as it is or you don't. nothing about mistakes or living with anything. I would not be so up myself to think I've never made mistakes, either within the sport or outside it, and I'm sure i will continue to do so in every aspect of horse riding and ownership, it's the nature of learning and being an imperfect student. I think you can recognise them and carry on trying to improve within the framework of competitive sport.
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Yes I agree with the bit about you either sign up for it and live with your mistakes or you recognise them and bow out. It is very VERY hard though turn away completely because you love the horse and the art (though maybe the art bit is really just now about how much shiny leather you can use on a horses' face) it hurts to watch some of what's on offer knowing the repercussions so you keep a beady eye and join lively action groups instead....