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Today she was just super in an incredibly windy arena. If I can get her losing weight without soaking stuff maybe she can stay a while longer ?.
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I would be cautious getting an Arab, I have 10, some live off fresh air whilst others need feeding up, also some ride like tanks and are wide whilst others ride more like a TB.
Feeding is going well, pulses are clear, and looks like we definitely have some weight loss going on, hips are emerging, but whether she stays or goes might be taken out of my hands.
Since having the lesson with the biomechanics orientated instructor on Thursday who pointed out I was sat to the right, I am checking and constantly readjusting to sit level. Now I have hip and knee niggles. If those don't stop, then I just can't sit level on her. I have checked her over carefully today and I can see atrophy on the right hand side of her back under the saddle. Clearly, if I can't sit level without pain and she is damaged by it, then the option to keep her is out the window, for her own sake.
I spent 25 years effort and stress and thousands of pounds changing saddles to fit horses. 15 years ago I found WOWs, which I absolutely rate for their flexible twist and adjustability. Because of how freely horses usually move in them, I swore i would never put another horse in a fixed tree. Changing saddles is not an option I want to consider. I don't believe it would help with this problem if I did.
For the next month I'll be concentrating on sitting straight and monitoring her back and my pain levels. Then I'll take stock of where we are at.
I haven't sat in a WOW for a long time, but they used to be really chunky. Would it be worth, if she's *just* that bit too wide, trying a close contact? Or a slimmer saddle?
Feeding is going well, pulses are clear, and looks like we definitely have some weight loss going on, hips are emerging, but whether she stays or goes might be taken out of my hands.
Since having the lesson with the biomechanics orientated instructor on Thursday who pointed out I was sat to the right, I am checking and constantly readjusting to sit level. Now I have hip and knee niggles. If those don't stop, then I just can't sit level on her. I have checked her over carefully today and I can see atrophy on the right hand side of her back under the saddle. Clearly, if I can't sit level without pain and she is damaged by it, then the option to keep her is out the window, for her own sake.
I spent 25 years effort and stress and thousands of pounds changing saddles to fit horses. 15 years ago I found WOWs, which I absolutely rate for their flexible twist and adjustability. Because of how freely horses usually move in them, I swore i would never put another horse in a fixed tree. Changing saddles is not an option I want to consider. I don't believe it would help with this problem if I did.
For the next month I'll be concentrating on sitting straight and monitoring her back and my pain levels. Then I'll take stock of where we are at.
Surely, if she slims down then that should also solve your "too wide" problem also? The majority of my Spanish horses have been quite wide (I go for the old fashioned type), and I have only recently - in the last year or so - started to get twinges in my hips (old age in my case, I think: never had a problem til I hit 60).Feeding is going well, pulses are clear, and looks like we definitely have some weight loss going on, hips are emerging, but whether she stays or goes might be taken out of my hands.
Since having the lesson with the biomechanics orientated instructor on Thursday who pointed out I was sat to the right, I am checking and constantly readjusting to sit level. Now I have hip and knee niggles. If those don't stop, then I just can't sit level on her. I have checked her over carefully today and I can see atrophy on the right hand side of her back under the saddle. Clearly, if I can't sit level without pain and she is damaged by it, then the option to keep her is out the window, for her own sake.
I spent 25 years effort and stress and thousands of pounds changing saddles to fit horses. 15 years ago I found WOWs, which I absolutely rate for their flexible twist and adjustability. Because of how freely horses usually move in them, I swore i would never put another horse in a fixed tree. Changing saddles is not an option I want to consider. I don't believe it would help with this problem if I did.
For the next month I'll be concentrating on sitting straight and monitoring her back and my pain levels. Then I'll take stock of where we are at.
Thank you for trying to help, but paragraph 3 answers that question.
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Surely, if she slims down then that should also solve your "too wide" problem also? The majority of my Spanish horses have been quite wide (I go for the old fashioned type), and I have only recently - in the last year or so - started to get twinges in my hips (old age in my case, I think: never had a problem til I hit 60).
That's actually quite sad to read that you have been changing horses for 40 years
Well, people are all different and they do different things.I have owned multiple horses and have never had such rigid needs as yours, in my experience horses need some flexibility ie management styles, saddlery, feeds ect, as I said in an earlier post I have 10 Arabs and a TB, all are different in their management needs but I don't pass them on because of that.
Edited to add 30+years
Quite judgey......perhaps some people just have a better idea of what they want and what they are prepared to do to get it.Yes I guess some are quick to move a horse on without trying
I have owned multiple horses and have never had such rigid needs as yours, in my experience horses need some flexibility ie management styles, saddlery, feeds ect, as I said in an earlier post I have 10 Arabs and a TB, all are different in their management needs but I don't pass them on because of that.
Edited to add 30+years
It does seem bonkers to me (in a cheerful way, not horrible way), but I’m sure it seems utterly bonkers to you that I would still have my little lunatic after all his challenges, and that I would give up my riding future in order to keep him as a pet. You don’t need to justify to us why you don’t want her anymore, what’s important is that you find her a good home, which I’m positive you will.
Guys, really, I will change the horse before I go back on the merry go round of eternal saddle refitting that I can't do myself. I won't put a horse in a fixed tree, and I don't like treeless.
I know it sounds odd to some people but changing horses is fine by me, I've been doing it for over 40 years.
I know you are trying to be helpful, and I'm grateful for that, but it isn't helpful to have to keep repeating myself to answer your suggestions.
My plan is as I said above, ride straight for a month and take stock of her back and my pain levels then. We had a lovely hack this morning but both my hips are now twinging in a way they haven't done since I sold my cob.
It does seem bonkers to me (i cheerful way, not horrible way), but I’m sure it seems utterly bonkers to you that I would still have my little lunatic after all his challenges, and that I would give up my riding future in order to keep him as a pet. .
you said somewhere that shorter is not how you want to ride. Nor presumably any different to how you ride now. It may be the case however that you have to, nothing to do with the horse but as you get older it may be necesary to accommodate your changing body shape, muscle strength and all the other horrible things that happen to us as we get older.![]()