JennBags
HHOSS Wonder Woman
Oops sorry forgot to add a picture, sorry to anyone following Adventures with Juno as I posted this yesterday on there but this was my bed yesterday morning (they are both on my legs!)
You definitely aren't an amateur (I am so takes one to know one etc). I really like that you are taking things slowly with the crate, it's obvious he won't react well if you try and tough love him through the process of getting used to the crate. I still occasionally feed my pup meals in her crate.Thanks all, honestly I'm such an amateur but am trying my very hardest to end up with a polite, well behaved and fun dog!
PAS I'm making progress on crate training but he's clearly been shoved in a crate as a puppy and left there; going in the crate is viewed by him as punishment and I don't want him to experience that at the moment as he can be slightly volatile and I want him to feel secure and happy with us. He is quite comfortable in the car (in a crate funnily enough!) so I'm not worried about leaving him there.
Thanks CC, not a negative nelly at all, all input (especially from someone as experienced and knowledgeable as you) is alwasy welcome. I wondered if someone would comment about him being on the bed, that genuinely almost never happens, he sleeps in his own bed on the floor and I don't normally allow him to come up. I have considered tethering him to me but I'm not sure I could cope with it, I'm struggling enough at the moment, he is in the same room as me nearly all the time, I was just cleaning my teeth when he nipped into the bin.JB I was going to post this earlier but thought I was being a negative nelly...I personally would get him off the bed until he understands some ground rules.
For me this is a dog that needs really clear boundaries and handling for the next few weeks if not months.
No freedom in the house to raid bins etc, taken from one place to another by you, you control all resources..food, exercise, interactions with other dogs, where he sleeps, you make all the decisions, everything comes from you.
This IMO would be the fairest thing and if you put the work in now, you will have a much happier dog.
It's not for everyone and your OH has to be on board but it will help him in the long run and it's helped a fair few people in the past, including me.