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I saw that , words failed me. They seemed very reluctant to name the rescue earlier this morning, I've been at work so not sure if they have done so now.
Admin turned off further comments on the post a couple of hours ago. She was full steam ahead continuing with the dog, rubbishing any criticism of her actions and it was never made clear where the dog was sourced from.
 

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I think a lot of people feel pressured to rescue or that it's the right thing. I'm sure plenty of rescue dogs can get along with children just fine under the right circumstances.

We always hear, "adopt don't shop" around here, and that's fine, but if people only supported and bought from responsible breeders, there'd be a bit less to adopt I bet 😏 if you can't profit off of being irresponsible, there's less initiative.

The shelter here does a decent job of testing and exposing dogs to kids, cats, other dogs, and will take some to out in public too. IME they're rather upfront about things and want to match the right dog to the right home vs just get them out the door.
 

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It didn’t occur to me not to rescue or rehome dogs when I had small children about. You just have to be sensible.
We did, too, but you, we and anyone with an ounce of common sense wouldn’t mix the toddler with the new arrival straight away, let the dog resource guard and snap at the toddler and next day have the toddler and the new dog playing fetch.

Apparently a stair gate is now being put in so at least the dog and toddler will then be able to be separated.
 

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It's nearly 4 years down the line and Ginny still hasn't met my nieces, and won't for a very long time for a reason. I love her dearly, she's amazing with kids who can read body language but not a chance in hell is she meeting a 3yo with no dog sense. I can't understand someone putting their own children at risk....and I'm anti children 😉
 

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Just like the Tik Tok account I saw earlier with an extensive array of videos of a Staffy resource guarding a brand new baby and them saying 'how cute' it is that 'he loves the baby'...

My parents JRT did this when I was born despite having been fine with my sister. They tried everything but nothing worked and he was moved on because my mothers nerves were absolutely shot. He used to try get into my cot and everything. When I first found this out as a young teenager I felt a bit guilty and now I'm obviously just grateful that they had the cop on to do the right thing.
 

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Bandit isn't keen on kids, and he gives them a wide berth, enjoys the company of teenagers though.

Mika and Flyn were the same with my nephew they couldn't stand the sight of him until he reached 14 and they then were bestest buds. My GSD, Kelly, before Mika and Flyn watched Lewis grow up and she was devoted to him and him to her. He's grown up now and he always says when he is in a position to get a dog he's going to get a GSD.
 

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My mum had an Irish wolfhound before she had me, she had taken him on some years before as he was a bit reactive, he was a one person dog and I think he was 10 when I arrived, he started to be a bit snappy with my dad and they decided it was too risky to keep him and my mum took him to be PTS. I had seen photos of him with my mum and when I was a teenager she told me what had happened and I felt guilty that she had done that because of me, but she was a responsible owner
 

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I've told the story before, but my mother had a brilliant dog who became increasingly possessive of her and I (I was a baby) to the extent that my Dad couldn't approach and he pinned a neighbour collecting for charity to the ground when she went to get her purse.

She had him put to sleep because if he had gone somewhere and really hurt someone she wouldn't have been able to forgive herself.
 

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Yes I think I’ve told this too - my parents had a female GSD before I was born, and the GSD had been heavily encouraged to guard the motorhome that they lived in. Unfortunately that behaviour morphed into lip lifting and growling at me when I was a baby, and my mum insisted that the GSD was pts. She said she was never sure if my dad ever forgave her, which speaks volumes about why he’s not been in my life since I was 5.
 

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Admin turned off further comments on the post a couple of hours ago. She was full steam ahead continuing with the dog, rubbishing any criticism of her actions and it was never made clear where the dog was sourced from.

Another post from same person , looking for a free crate , big enough for a GSD 😟
 

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I dunno, call me old fashioned but I always do things like check the dog is a good fit for my household/family, find out a bit about it, stock up on any equipment/food I might need and make sure I have good training advice on hand BEFORE I bring the bleddy thing home....

But hey, she 'rescued' it 🥰🥰🥰

Looking at her other posts in the group she moved into property in October and has since posted asking for several things free , including a bed for the toddler as theirs was broken in the move . So why anyone in those circumstances would think it a good idea to take on a large dog heaven knows .
 

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Looking at her other posts in the group she moved into property in October and has since posted asking for several things free , including a bed for the toddler as theirs was broken in the move . So why anyone in those circumstances would think it a good idea to take on a large dog heaven knows .
Succinctly she sums up why we have problems with dogs nowadays. I wanna, I wanna, I wanna NOW!
 

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I'm not apologising that she isn't going to forget me in a hurry, I'm stressed enough at the moment without my stress reliever walk on a country path being disturbed by tw*ts like her. I'm pretty sure she got the message just how angry I was.
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I'm not apologising that she isn't going to forget me in a hurry, I'm stressed enough at the moment without my stress reliever walk on a country path being disturbed by tw*ts like her. I'm pretty sure she got the message just how angry I was.
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So many people just don't realise the power (and ease) of a simple apology (including my OH :rolleyes: ). Just say "Sorry, I didn't realise," or some such, and everyone can move on and enjoy their day. There seems to be an automatic defence/attack thing people have, shirking responsibility for their own actions and using attack as a defence. It's pointless, because nobody feels better...just bloody apologise!

ETA - I'm not getting at you here ycbm - I'd have gone off at the ridiculous woman too, had she said similar. It's HER I'm criticising!
 

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So many people just don't realise the power (and ease) of a simple apology (including my OH :rolleyes: ). Just say "Sorry, I didn't realise," or some such, and everyone can move on and enjoy their day. There seems to be an automatic defence/attack thing people have, shirking responsibility for their own actions and using attack as a defence. It's pointless, because nobody feels better...just bloody apologise!
Exactly this.
 

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Well this takes the biscuit.

I've just had a dog walker tell me that if I'm partially sighted I should be wearing a notice so she knows not to allow her dog to sniff my jeans.
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What insanity is this?!

Other dog walkers telling off their dogs for saying hello to me makes me scratch my head (but if they don’t have dogs then I’ll call them away). I mean, I’m ankle deep in mud, dripping with rain, I have 2 filth meisters of my own splashing through the endless puddles, do I look like I care?!
 

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What insanity is this?!

Other dog walkers telling off their dogs for saying hello to me makes me scratch my head (but if they don’t have dogs then I’ll call them away). I mean, I’m ankle deep in mud, dripping with rain, I have 2 filth meisters of my own splashing through the endless puddles, do I look like I care?!
How dirty you are isn't the point. Personally I don't want mine in the habit of leaping at strangers, you may not mind but many people do and dogs don't differentiate between dirty and clean people. I try, not always successfully, to instil manners in mine so that they don't upset the general public. It is part of the Good Citizen tests too.
 
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