I've booked my horse in with the vets to be PTS

[Equi]

So sorry to read this. Not gonna lie I avoided the post for a few days cause it was too hard as it’s only been a month since I lost my boy. Thankfully I only had a one day wait and I said goodbye then went to work and locked myself in the bathroom cause I just couldn’t cope for a bit. It’s the toughest thing in the world to go through esp when they’re in such good form and looking so well bar the massive lameness. What really helped me in the first few days was busying myself getting a memorial box and filling it with things...some hair and a hoof clipping (it’s so comforting to just see the colour of his hoof) and his passport etc. Looking at photos is still hard but it gets a little bit easier each day.

big hugs to you and your lovely lady

 

[tristar]

oh B, i know you are sad, but well done for making this hard decision, the next few days are yours and hers, we are with all the way

if you have any doubts about the procedure talk it through with the vet, please, to ease your mind

i think you will get through few days because you always put your horse first and are stronger than you think, knowing she will free will give you the strength x

 

[DizzyDoughnut]

I'm so sorry xx Hope you get to spend time with her this weekend and remember all the good times you've had together.

How did your interview go today?

 

[NOISYGIRL2]

It's really hard to have to make the decision. I did same with my 42 yr old booked pts for the 9th Mar Tuesday, he died of his own accord in the early hours of the sunday mar 7th just gone, I think it was his last favour to me not to have to go through it. I feel your pain I too knew in my heart it was the right decision and sort of willing the day to come quicker as it was torture knowing what was coming ?

 

[FireCracker238]

I think you and I should get extremely, virtually drunk together.

Is this offer open to anyone? I'm in the "one last summer" scenario atm ??

 

[Ownedby4horses]

OP, just to say I hope you’re ok And your interview went well. x

 

[Caol Ila]

Is this offer open to anyone? I'm in the "one last summer" scenario atm ??

Yes, of course it is. It's a sh1t scenario. I thought we would have the summer, but she's losing weight and condition even with the spring grass, so we can't even have that.

 

[FireCracker238]

Yes, of course it is. It's a sh1t scenario. I thought we would have the summer, but she's losing weight and condition even with the spring grass, so we can't even have that.

Relatable! I highly doubt we'll see summer out. Feel free to message if you need to vent or want that virtual drink ?

 

[Caol Ila]

There's Zoom or Skype, isn't there?

 

[Shilasdair]

It's such a difficult time - but the right decision.
Regarding 'Friends at the end' it's a British Horse Society initiative where volunteers will help and support owners through these sad processes.
Link here - https://www.bhs.org.uk/our-work/welfare/our-campaigns/friends-at-the-end

I hope it all goes well - your horse is lucky to have you, Birker.

 

[FireCracker238]

There's Zoom or Skype, isn't there?

Probably shouldn't admit this......I've never used either ?‍

 

[brighteyes]

Hoping she is having a lovely day out with the sun on her back and the sun comes out tomorrow for a peaceful and easy passing. Thinking of you today and wish you the bravery you'll be needing for her xxx

 

[View]

It’s always so difficult,but hold on to the fact that you are ensuring that she will never be in pain or distressed again.

hugs

 

[Surbie]

Another wish that she is having a lovely day in the sun with grass to chew and interesting things to look at. And I hope your interview went well, that must have been tricky.
Sending vibes.

 

[fankino04]

Will be thinking of you tomorrow, it's a horrible decision to make but well done on being strong enough to make it for her x

 

[Errin Paddywack]

Hope all goes as well as it can tomorrow, will be thinking of you.

 

[TinseLeneHorse]

Thinking of you tomorrow. She will have the sun on her back and fresh spring grass in her tummy when she goes and won't know a thing. It doesn't make it any easier for you though.

 

[Flowerofthefen]

Thinking of you xx

 

[Spirit2021]

I am only seeing this thread I am sorry to hear that you have to put your horse down.

 

[MidChristmasCrisis]

Sending you the hand hold for the morning..try to sleep tonight...

 

[Kahlua]

Just wanted to send you virtual hugs, it’s next easy to make this decision

 

[ycbm]

Thinking of you for tomorrow B.
.

 

[Sandstone1]

Im sorry you are going to have to do this, Its so hard I know. I have been there as have many here. I hope all goes well and peacefully. Remember to look after yourself as well.

 

[alibali]

Thinking of you both, hugs

 

[quiteniceforacob]

Thinking of you both today x

 

[CanteringCarrot]

Thinking of you both today, and may your lovely horse have a peaceful end.

 

[Red-1]

Thinking of you all. X

 

[Emilieu]

Thinking of you xx

 

[SashaBabe]

Thinking of you xx

 

[Ownedby4horses]

Also thinking of you OP. x