lexiedhb
Well-Known Member
Ok so what would you do?
We have woods near us that I have walked in since getting Dex and before with OH's mothers dog. Its a nice loop round- quiet, you can see whats coming (ideal for Dex and his dog reactiveness) cool in the weather- generally just nice.
So I am walking along when an off lead spangle comes haring at us stops barks and then scoots off into the woods..... Dex does his "PERLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE let me go to" act..... and is quite understandably I feel excited... then a man and a lady appear... and this happens
Man:"that dog isnt under control, these are my woods"
Me " dex sit (he does) sorry but he is under control he is on both a harness and a headcollar- cant get much more control than that"
Man: " well he does not look it to me- I have a dog and am feeling quite intimidated by him"
Me: " ok well we'll move on then, but really he is just very excited by your off lead spaniel in the woods, who as it goes barked at him/me"
Man: "well this is my land and I never want to see THAT dog here again"
Me: " hes a rescue and under control- is never off lead, you're not being fair!, he has to learn somewhere, he hasn't lunged or barked at you he is just sat here staring into the woods after your dog, admittedly with the odd squeal- but its is just excitement, and as I said he is never off lead"
Man: " well he's not going to learn here, hes intimidating, this is MY land, I never want THAT dog here again"
Que me walking off and bursting into tears (as actually Dex had been really good, and if he poxy spangle hadn't run up to us barking he would have ignored the people totally)
..... so what to do? There is a public footpath straight through the woods, but I do not think it includes the rest of the circular bit. Would you stay away anyway? of be defiant and carry on going?- even if to just walk the bit that is actually a public right of way? 
Why is it ok for his nutter of a dog to run up to us barking and then sod off but mine- on a headcollar and harness is not under control............ this has really upset me as now I will have to stick the dog in the car to do anything other than road walk pretty much.....
Oh have never seen this guy in the woods before- spangle was quite distinctive markings.
We have woods near us that I have walked in since getting Dex and before with OH's mothers dog. Its a nice loop round- quiet, you can see whats coming (ideal for Dex and his dog reactiveness) cool in the weather- generally just nice.
So I am walking along when an off lead spangle comes haring at us stops barks and then scoots off into the woods..... Dex does his "PERLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE let me go to" act..... and is quite understandably I feel excited... then a man and a lady appear... and this happens
Man:"that dog isnt under control, these are my woods"
Me " dex sit (he does) sorry but he is under control he is on both a harness and a headcollar- cant get much more control than that"
Man: " well he does not look it to me- I have a dog and am feeling quite intimidated by him"
Me: " ok well we'll move on then, but really he is just very excited by your off lead spaniel in the woods, who as it goes barked at him/me"
Man: "well this is my land and I never want to see THAT dog here again"
Me: " hes a rescue and under control- is never off lead, you're not being fair!, he has to learn somewhere, he hasn't lunged or barked at you he is just sat here staring into the woods after your dog, admittedly with the odd squeal- but its is just excitement, and as I said he is never off lead"
Man: " well he's not going to learn here, hes intimidating, this is MY land, I never want THAT dog here again"
Que me walking off and bursting into tears (as actually Dex had been really good, and if he poxy spangle hadn't run up to us barking he would have ignored the people totally)
Why is it ok for his nutter of a dog to run up to us barking and then sod off but mine- on a headcollar and harness is not under control............ this has really upset me as now I will have to stick the dog in the car to do anything other than road walk pretty much.....
Oh have never seen this guy in the woods before- spangle was quite distinctive markings.
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