tda
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So sorry to hear this, what a fantastic life he has had whilst being with you, his own servant, catering for his every need
Be proud you were chosen by him xxxx
Be proud you were chosen by him xxxx
Have a virtual hug from me. You did Kevin proud xHello, dear HHO friends. I got back to the barge about 12:30hrs.
Kevin went serenely on his way assisted by a truly lovely young woman vet, who also has a horse. She was really kind to both him and me and couldn't have been more supportive and professional. My usual vet, The Sainted Dave, also came in as I left the deceased Kevin, and gave me a hug. Apparently, he'd briefed the attending vet on all the animals I'd had over the last 40 years, and the highs and lows we'd both experienced during their lives.
I've just spent a busy couple of hours clearing up all physical traces of Kevin's residence here and I'm now wiped out. Being regularly sick, too (sorry - TMI, I know!) which is surprising, since I haven't had anything to eat since yesterday, other than a couple of biscuits and a mug of tea.
I'm off to my bunk to crash out for the next couple of hours.
Again thanks for your help and support.
You will get there but it takes timeAgain, thank you all for your empathic responses.
Just don't want to eat. Can't be bothered. A friend brought a few biscuits round, so I ate those when she was gone.
I've been resting/dozing this afternoon. The snag is that when I wake up, I remember that Kevin is dead and it hits all over again.
Friends have been offering kittens, their unwanted, lurking strays, even their own unwanted cats! Unbelievable!
Two close friends have offered pre-loved adult cats that their neighbours want rid of, now they are no longer amusing kittens and/or any expensive purebred kitten courtesy of multimillionaire husband who never asks any questions about what money is required for. It's really kind of them, but I just want Kevin back. It was entirely the correct decision to let him go, but the speed of his decline and the necessary outcome is what I'm having problems internalising.
The passage of time will settle it, but in my experience, it's a switchback process.
Again, thank you for your concern and compassion.